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		<title>Should Drag Queens Pay to Race Down 17th Street?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 14:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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FOX5 investigates why some D.C. special events&#8212;including D.C.'s traditional Halloween drag event, the Dupont "High Heel" race&#8212;aren't forced to pay the city fees for the D.C. police officers employed as security for the parades. Kristopher Baumann, Chairman of the Fraternal Order of Police's Labor Committee, suggests that the city money used to subsidize the parties [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>FOX5</em> investigates why some D.C. special events&#8212;including D.C.'s traditional Halloween drag event, the Dupont "High Heel" race&#8212;aren't forced to pay the city fees for the D.C. police officers employed as security for the parades. <strong>Kristopher Baumann</strong>, Chairman of the Fraternal Order of Police's Labor Committee, suggests that the city money used to subsidize the parties might be better spent, like, address the murder rate. [Via <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/news/last_word/2010/07/dcs-gay-high-heel-race-mention.html"><em>Metro Weekly</em></a>]</p>
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		<title>The Morning After: Feminine Feminist Edition</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 13:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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* Ms. Magazine reporter Kate Noftsinger asks a panel of Lilith Fair artists a question:
“Who here identifies as a feminist?”

I got a long pause, followed by nervous laughter.
Finally [Brandi Carlile] spoke, “I don’t know, it means something different that it used to.”
Before I could ask what it meant now as opposed to then, [Sarah McLachlan] [...]]]></description>
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<p>*<em> Ms. Magazine</em> reporter <strong>Kate Noftsinger</strong> asks a panel of Lilith Fair artists <a href="http://msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2010/07/15/is-lilith-fair-feminist-sarah-mclachlans-not-sure/">a question</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>“Who here identifies as a feminist?”</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>I got a long pause, followed by nervous laughter.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Finally [<strong>Brandi Carlile</strong>] spoke, “I don’t know, it means something different that it used to.”</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Before I could ask what it meant now as opposed to then, [<strong>Sarah McLachlan</strong>] assumed the role of official spokesperson and began building a mystery:</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>"It’s a tricky question, because it’s been redefined and I think we all define feminism to a certain degree. We all define femininity. I think we’re able to have a little more balance. There’s still fights to be fought. There’s still inequality, absolutely. . . . I think as long as we’re being mindful and honest with ourselves and doing what we feel is right, and that’s a very personal decision for all of us, if we’re going forth with that intention, then we are; we’re being feminists, we’re being humanists, we’re being feminine. We’re being true to ourselves, in every way, in every facet of our personalities."</p></blockquote>
<p>By conflating feminism with femininity, <strong>Sarah McLachlan</strong> officially lies squarely in the feminist tradition of <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/12/09/sarah-palin-supporters-talk-feminism/">Sarah Palin devotees</a>.</p>
<p>*<em> Metro Weekly </em><a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/feature/?ak=5430">profiles</a> "the  first out transgender Capitol Hill staffer."</p>
<p>* But, also in<em> Metro Weekly</em>, magazine co-publisher <strong>Sean Bugg </strong>is "<a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/news/opinion/?ak=5429">terrified to  write about transgender issues</a>."</p>
<p>* In 1999, <strong>David Segal </strong>penned <a href="http://www.salon.com/people/feature/1999/11/08/stagliano">the definitive Buttman profile</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Ladies and gentlemen, hide your daughters: John Stagliano is  strolling down a riverside walkway and he's got his mojo working.</p>
<p>Cradling a video camera in his hands, he sidles up to a curvy  brunet and fumbles for a pick-up line. Gazing into the lens, the woman  seems flustered at first, then amused, then &#8212; lo and behold &#8212;  flattered. She follows him to a hotel room, and within minutes she is  standing on a coffee table, peeling off her dress. A man knocks on the  door and eventually there is a whole lot of naked writhing on a white  couch.</p>
<p>Stagliano shoots. Stagliano scores.</p></blockquote>
<p>* <strong>Sady Doyle</strong> channels <strong>Simone de Beauvoir</strong>-as-<a href="http://tigerbeatdown.com/2010/07/16/conseil-pour-vous-personnes-tristes-the-resurrection-of-simone-de-beauvoir/">dating advice columnist</a>.</p>
<p><em>Photo via <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kashmera/3680044843/"><strong>Kashmera</strong></a>, Creative Commons Attribution License 2.0</em></p>
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		<title>The Morning After: Stay Puft Edition</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 12:54:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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Burlesque marshmallow man, via The Candy Pitch
* Seventy-five-year-old Mamie "Peanut" Johnson, the "first and only woman to pitch in the Negro American League," is set to be commemorated with her own field in Northeast D.C.

* The National Area Woman's Foundation doles out some advice to the new cast of "Real Housewives of D.C." "Since I [...]]]></description>
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<em>Burlesque marshmallow man, via <a href="http://thecandypitch.blogspot.com/2010/06/video-of-week_23.html">The Candy Pitch</a></em></p>
<p>* Seventy-five-year-old <strong>Mamie "Peanut" Johnson</strong>, the "first and only woman to pitch in the Negro American League," is set to be <a href="http://wamu.org/news/10/06/23.php#35369">commemorated with her own field</a> in Northeast D.C.</p>
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<p>* <strong>The National Area Woman's Foundation</strong> <a href="http://thewomensfoundation.org/2010/the-not-so-real-housewives-of-places-that-are-close-to-dc-5-things-to-remember-next-time-youre-on-a-reality-show/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+Wawf+%28Washington+Area+Women%27s+Foundation%29">doles out some advice</a> to the new cast of "Real Housewives of D.C." "Since I moved to Washington, D.C., I have been incredibly impressed by  the number of intelligent, genuine, caring, friendly and strong women  I’ve met," writes <strong>Mariah Craven.</strong> "Those women will not be on the 'Real Housewives of DC.'”</p>
<p>* The <em>Washington Blade</em> factors heavily into the <em>Village Voice's </em>story on the <a href="http://www.villagevoice.com/2010-06-22/news/gay-print-media-on-the-wane">"death rattle" of gay print media</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Making things even harder for gay media—new and old—is the  not-unpleasant problem of continuous and thorough examination of LGBT  issues in big media like <em>The New York Times</em>, the <em><a title="The  Washington Post Company" href="http://www.villagevoice.com/related/to/The+Washington+Post+Company">Washington  Post</a></em>, and the <em>Voice</em>. Their coverage threatens to make  already-threatened gay community weeklies, with their much more limited  resources, redundant. Consider this: The photo that caught notorious  professional homophobe <a title="George Alan Rekers" href="http://www.villagevoice.com/related/to/George+Alan+Rekers">George  Alan Rekers</a> with a male escort at an airport two months ago wasn’t  taken for a gay paper, but for the <em>Voice</em>’s sister paper, <em>Miami  New Times</em>.</p></blockquote>
<p>It's true that LGBT news has gone mainstream, but it's a bit odd for the<em> Voice</em> to lump itself and <em>Miami New Times</em> together with such "big media" dailies as The <em>New York Times</em> and the <em>Washington Post</em>. The <em>Miami New Times</em>, like the gay papers that the <em>Voice </em>declares as dying, is a weekly with limited resources and an equally uncertain future.</p>
<p>*<strong> Metro Weekly</strong> profiles a "<a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/news/?ak=5371">model blood donor</a>" who is ineligible to donate because he has sex with men. Says <strong>Lee Storrow:</strong> "I think it's powerful that I am someone who … would have <em>been</em> a  lifetime donor&#8212;and could potentially <em>be</em> a lifetime donor&#8212;but isn't eligible because of this policy.''</p>
<p>* LGBT activist<strong> Peter Rosenstein</strong> on <a href="http://www.washingtonblade.com/2010/06/24/why-i-can%E2%80%99t-support-fenty-for-a-2nd-term/">why he's not voting for</a><strong> Adrian Fenty</strong>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Candidate Fenty promised support for marriage equality but Mayor Fenty  never spoke up for it. He didn’t testify for it or allow his director of  the Office of GLBT Affairs to do so. Compare that to the advocacy of mayors like Gavin Newsom and now even  Michael Bloomberg and it really comes up short. He did sign a veto-proof  bill and held a signing ceremony to be in on the celebration. He did sign a veto-proof bill  and held a signing ceremony to be in on the celebration.</p>
<p>Candidate Fenty promised to fight against hate crimes. Mayor Fenty never  even managed to get the words hate crimes out of his mouth. He refused  to meet with the community at-large even though these crimes have been  increasing. Candidate Fenty promised to hold a GLBT Economic Summit.  Mayor Fenty refused to make this an event of the mayor’s office and has  never found time to attend one. Candidate Fenty promised to take the  message of fighting HIV/AIDS to the community, including the faith  community. Mayor Fenty has never spoken to a faith-based group about  HIV/AIDS.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Rick Rosendall</strong>'s <a href="http://www.glaaforum.org/glaa_forum/2010/06/rosensteins-egoladen-filibuster-against-fenty.html">take</a>: "This is too long, too one-sided, and too  much about Peter Rosenstein."</p>
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		<title>Ladies First: Does D.C. Have a GLBT Community or an LGBT One?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 17:30:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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Metro Weekly co-publishers Randy Shulman and Sean Bugg
This  year, the DC Center—the sole community center serving the District’s gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender residents—will no longer be known as a “GLBT” community center. It will be known as a center for the “LGBT” community. It’s a simple transposition of two letters, but it offers [...]]]></description>
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Metro Weekly<em> co-publishers <strong>Randy Shulman </strong>and<strong> Sean Bugg</strong></em></p>
<p>This  year, the <a href="http://www.thedccenter.org/">DC Center</a>—the sole community center serving the District’s gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender residents—will no longer be known as a “GLBT” community center. It will be known as a center for the “LGBT” community. It’s a simple transposition of two letters, but it offers a glimpse into the complicated gender politics of the people the DC Center serves.</p>
<p>GLBT—an acronym which stands for “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and  transgender”—was coined in the 1990s to reflect the widening umbrella of  identities represented by what was originally referred to simply as the  “gay community.” But when the title expanded to include additional marginalized identities, few agreed on who should come first. “There have always been fights in the community over acronyms, which letters to include, and what order they ought to be in,” says <strong>Sean Bugg</strong>, co-publisher of District LGBT—or GLBT, depending on who you ask—magazine  <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/"><em>Metro Weekly</em></a>. “You sometimes wish there was a board saying, ‘This is what it’s going to be now.’”</p>
<p>Recently, several local institutions have arrived at some consensus: LGBT is in. And GLBT is, ahem, out.</p>
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<p>Why the concern over the placement of a couple of letters? <strong>David Mariner</strong>, Executive Director of  the DC Center, says that his organization’s acronym switch-up is “not a big deal either way,” but that the Center made the change “to be consistent with the other national organizations we are affiliated  with.” CenterLink, which serves as a hub for “LGBT Community Centers Around the World,” favors the L, but its 201 affiliated centers vary on usage.</p>
<p>“I think it’s often a local preference,” says <strong>Terry Stone</strong>, CenterLink’s  Florida-based Executive Director. “In some parts of the country, LGBT is  more predominant. In other places, it’s GLBT. I don’t think that much  deep thought goes into choosing LGBT or GLBT. People just use what has  become familiar to them in their coming-out process.”</p>
<p>The DC Center’s switch isn’t the only indication that the District is  now batting for LGBT. Metro Weekly also recently began favoring the  acronym; Bugg says the change from GLBT to LGBT was codified in its  style guide about six months ago. “I hesitate to change our style guide without having a really strong reason for it,” says Bugg. The rationale: Metro Weekly’s style was becoming increasingly inconsistent with community standards, and ‘GLBT’-schooled Metro Weekly reporters kept  returning with quotes from ‘LGBT’-happy subjects. “A lot of people would  be using ‘LGBT’ in a quote, and we would be using ‘GLBT’ as a matter of style,” says Bugg. “It became a bit awkward and confusing.”</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2010/05/dccenter.gif"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-10290" title="dccenter" src="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2010/05/dccenter.gif" alt="dccenter" width="240" height="59" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2010/05/DCC_logo_cmyk.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-10291" title="DCC_DC_Center_Branding_Logo_P02" src="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2010/05/DCC_logo_cmyk.jpg" alt="DCC_DC_Center_Branding_Logo_P02" width="240" height="41" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>The DC Center logo, before and after the switch.</em></p>
<p>Also confusing: navigating the ever-expanding roster of initials that can be added to the standard four-letter-acronym. Local newspaper the <a href="http://www.washingtonblade.com/"><em>Washington Blade</em></a> has an evolving approach to the acronym. According to Editor in Chief <strong>Kevin Naff</strong>, the paper “uses LGBT in stories and headlines.” In its branding, however, the paper now tacks on an extra Q.</p>
<p>“We’ve recently added the Q to our tagline in response to reader inquiries and concerns that those ‘questioning’ their sexual orientation  were excluded from coverage,” Naff says. “We have not added the Q to standard references in stories, mostly because the alphabet soup starts to get unwieldy.”</p>
<p>Other emerging subgroups may add more letters to the acronym: an I, for  “intersex”; an extra T, for the Native American identity of the “two-spirit”; an A, for either “ally” or “asexual”; and the Q, for  either “queer” or “questioning.” Bugg says that <em>Metro Weekly</em> eschews the Q for clarity reasons. “We don’t use Q because it’s not standardized,”  he says. “If you start packing on Q, depending on the context it can  mean ‘queer,’ or it can mean ‘questioning,’”adds Bugg. “You want your readers to know what you’re talking about.”</p>
<p>Beyond D.C., there remains no industry acronym standard. According to  GLAAD’s “<a href="http://www.glaad.org/Page.aspx?pid=373">Media Reference Guide</a>,” which instructs journalists how best to cover the community, both “LGBT” and “GLBT” are acceptable. GLAAD notes  that acronyms “are often used because they are more inclusive of the diversity of the community,” but warns that “Care should be taken to ensure that audiences are not confused by their use.”</p>
<p>Perhaps that’s why the Associated Press, the <em>Washington Post</em>, and the <em>New York Times</em> refrain from mentioning any of the related acronyms in their style guides—for the uninitiated, even the four basic initials can require a more verbose explanation.</p>
<p>But the politics of community acronyms go far beyond scannability. “Acronyms are tough,” says<strong> Deb Greenspan</strong>, who writes for local  entertainment site <a href="http://www.brightestyoungthings.com/category/gays/">Brightest Young Gays</a>. “On the one hand, you’re able  to give a bunch of discrete, self-identifying groups representation  while making life a bit easier on your reader. On the other hand,  whenever you start to list letters, you get the sense that you better  list them all,” she says.</p>
<p>Lists also imply rank. “You inevitably have to put someone first and someone<br />
last in the string of letters,” says Greenspan. The potential for point-counting is one reason Greenspan prefers to call the whole thing off: “I tend to use queer, since it removes the issue of rank,” she says. <strong>Zack Rosen</strong>, editor of local website <a href="http://thenewgay.net/">The New Gay</a>, also  uses queer: “I want to make sure that we don’t use terms that leave  anyone out, and I think queer is the most inclusive umbrella term,” Rosen says. “It doesn’t make any assumptions about how people identify.”</p>
<p>But for some, moving the ‘L’ to the front of the line constitutes an important political statement. “I always understood it as a nod to feminism,” says Greenspan. “For a long time, the gay community was not inclusive of women, and lesbians had to forge out on their own in a lot of ways. The balance still isn’t perfect, but I think the L in front is a  recognition of that.”</p>
<p>If putting ladies first is a sign of respect, what does it mean that  bisexual and transgender people consistently take up the rear? For a long time, working to simply tack on the ‘T’ was met with controversy. “T is still a fairly recent addition, and it’s not one that is fully accepted by all parts of the community,” says Bugg.</p>
<p>Since the wider community’s best-known activists don’t always focus on the concerns of Is, As, Qs and Ts, acronym inclusion can come off as tokenism. <em>Metro Weekly</em>’s internal style guide now contains a four-paragraph discussion of acronyms, which warns reporters against overstating the magazine’s coverage via acronym. “We only use LGBT when we’re speaking about an issue that is inclusive of all four of those. If it’s solely about gay men, you use ‘gay men.’ If it’s something that deals solely with lesbians, you use ‘lesbians,’” says Bugg.</p>
<p>“It’s all well and good if we use inclusive acronyms, but if you’re not actually reflecting all those letters in your magazine, then it really doesn’t matter,” he  says. “As important as it is to be inclusive, it’s far more important to actually tell the stories of those lives.”</p>
<p><em>Photo by<strong> Darrow Montgomery</strong></em></p>
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		<title>The Metro Weekly Man V. The Blade Man</title>
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In this week's cover story, I examine the cultural relevance of D.C.'s competing LGBT publications, Metro Weekly and the Washington Blade (now the D.C. Agenda). Are you a Metro Weekly man? Or are you a Blade man? Or are you not an upper-middle-class middle-aged gay man who lives in Northwest Washington D.C., and therefore largely [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">In this week's cover story, I examine the cultural relevance of <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/display.php?id=38143">D.C.'s competing LGBT publications</a>, <em>Metro Weekly</em> and the <em>Washington Blade </em>(<a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/11/16/the-final-hours-of-the-washington-blade/">now the <em>D.C. Agenda</em></a>). Are you a<em> Metro Weekly</em> man? Or are you a <em>Blade</em> man? Or are you not an upper-middle-class middle-aged gay man who lives in Northwest Washington D.C., and therefore largely ambivalent? File your allegiances in the comments.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>Illustration by <strong>Robert Ullman</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Dupont High Heel Race Gets Political</title>
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Tomorrow, as per tradition, hundreds of drag queens will race down 17th Street between R and Church Streets NW. According to Metro Weekly, the 24th annual Dupont High Heel Race will see a couple of changes this year: One, you won't be able to drink beer outside anymore. And two, it's political this time.

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<p>Tomorrow, as per tradition, hundreds of drag queens will race down 17th Street between R and Church Streets NW. According to <em>Metro Weekly</em>, the <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=4591">24th annual Dupont High Heel Race</a> will see a couple of changes this year: One, you won't be able to drink beer outside anymore. And two, it's political this time.</p>
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<p><em>Metro Weekly </em>delivers the bad news: This go-around, the "traditional beer garden adjacent JR.'s" will be closed due to inclement weather. In place of beer, however, this year's High Heel Race will provide racers and on-lookers with a sense of purpose! <strong>Will O'Bryan </strong>reports:</p>
<blockquote><p>the event is now being run under a First Amendment permit rather than a parade permit, reflective of the event's gay identity. That distinction clears the way for street closures and a police presence. Loosely speaking, it's the difference between a political rally and a block party.</p>
<p>"Until we have complete equality and people want to show up at gay events, they need to realize we don't have the same rights," says [Dave]  Perruzza [vice president of JR.'s]. "The [volunteers'] shirts will probably say, 'Equality for Everyone.' It's the High Heel March for Equality. It's a gay event, put on by gay people."</p></blockquote>
<p>It's unclear why the permit switcheroo was necessary&#8212;the parade has run for years with street closures and a police presence. Whatever the rationale, the designation may help drum up support for a pending bill that would recognize same-sex marriages in the District of Columbia. So, who's running for <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/10/22/in-defense-of-dc-domestic-partnerships/">domestic partnerships</a>?</p>
<p><em>Photo by <strong>Darrow Montgomery</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Steep Price: Gay Sex Club Closes After Fatal Injury</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 13:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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Throwing in the Towels: Men’s club death leaves city grasping for answers.
Early in the morning of Oct. 4, a member of a private Logan Circle “men’s social club” fell to his death. According to a D.C. police report, the 47-year-old man was discovered in the stairwell leading to the basement of 1618 14th St. NW, [...]]]></description>
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<strong>Throwing in the Towels: Men’s club death leaves city grasping for answers.</strong></p>
<p>Early in the morning of Oct. 4, a member of a private Logan Circle “men’s social club” <a href="http://borderstan.com/2009/10/04/a-death-at-mens-parties-at-14th-corcoran-nw/">fell to his death</a>. According to a D.C. police report, the 47-year-old man was discovered in the stairwell leading to the basement of 1618 14th St. NW, the victim of “blunt impact injury of head.” Police believe the man may have tumbled down the stairs; the organizer of the club <a href="http://www.washblade.com/thelatest/thelatest.cfm?blog_id=27508">told the <em>Washington Blade</em></a> that the man likely fell on a “cement floor,” where he “possibly hit his head on a metal pipe or a brick wall.”</p>
<p>The man’s injury was sustained during the regular activities of the club, which include nightly gay sex events called “Men’s Parties,” as well as meetings of the “Jack Off Enthusiasts of Washington and Baltimore.” The accident has drawn public scrutiny over the private meetings, as well as a defense: Following the death, the club’s organizer told police that his establishment provides “a safe place for gay men to have consensual sex.”</p>
<p>How does a club meant to provide a “safe place” end up hosting a member’s death? By working off a creative definition of “safe.”</p>
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At Men’s Parties, safety doesn’t mean ensuring that the apartment’s stairs, surfaces, and exposed metal pipes provide a secure sexual landscape for party attendees. It doesn’t even mean encouraging members to engage in protected sex. At 1618 14th St., “safe” means ensuring anonymous sex for a group of gay men sporting wedding rings, sensitive careers, or shame.</p>
<p>For a “men’s social club,” the regularly scheduled activities included little socializing. “There is very little to none, in terms of conversation,” says one visitor to the club, who says he has attended Men’s Parties over a dozen times in the past six years. “Everything is kept strictly anonymous. No one asks for phone numbers, and no one ever really leaves with someone else,” he says. “People come there, do their business, and leave.” The club reinforced the anonymity with a cover of darkness. “The steps leading down to the basement floor were very, very dark,” he says. “I think your eyes, under normal circumstances, could adjust. However, the place was still very dark and the steps were very steep.”</p>
<p>Unfortunately for Men’s Parties, police and city officials operate on a more traditional definition of “safety.” The man’s death marks the second major incident at the club to draw the scrutiny of the police, city officials, and neighbors. In 2005, a <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=1644">candle ignited a mattress</a> in the building’s upper floor, causing $5,000 in damages and bringing fire officials inside the club. According to the <em>Blade</em>, the <a href="http://www.aegis.com/News/WB/2005/WB050632.html">emergency response revealed</a> an establishment with “exit signs, a reception desk, a row of gym lockers, and signs stating the hours the place was open”—but no certificate of occupancy or business licenses. In November of that year, five months following the fire, ads for the parties read: “We are expecting to move soon. Please call for more information.”</p>
<p>But the most heated safety concerns surrounding the Men’s Parties lie outside the scope of city regulation. According to the frequent visitor to the club, “The most dangerous condition there was the lack of condoms.…There are no bowls of condoms upstairs or downstairs, where most of the sex takes place,” he says. “To me, this was always a recipe for disaster.”</p>
<p>At first, Men’s Parties attempted to weather the unwelcome scrutiny of police, city officials, and neighbors. The evening following the death, the club had reopened for business. On Oct. 9, a regular half-page ad ran in the back pages of the <em>Blade</em>, inviting readers to come “socialize.” The same issue contained a news item on the man’s death. But within a week of the incident, the club had shuttered under the weight of exposure. The front gate, typically left ajar to signal that the party is on, had been locked. A message left on the advertised phone number now informs callers, “We are temporarily closed until further notice.”</p>
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<strong>A typical advertisement in the <em>Washington Blade.</em></strong></p>
<p>For years, the club had thrived under a thin cover: organized snacking. In <a href="http://www.nbcwashington.com/news/local-beat/Death_in__Mens_Social_Club__Causes_Concern_Washington_DC.html">an interview with NBC 4</a>, self-identified “volunteer” Skip Miller described the activities of the club: “We have videos. We have sodas. We have snacks,” he said. In a <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/10/07/mens-party-sex-club-victim-may-have-broken-neck/">Logan Circle ANC meeting</a> addressing the death, 3rd District police Lieutenant <strong>Vanessa Moore </strong>said that the head of the club “does not take money per se. He does take donations for chips, dips, and soda. And we’ll leave it at that.”</p>
<p>Club memberships were easy to come by. All you had to do was show up at 1618 14th St. and provide a donation at the door. The club received plenty of donations in recent years, thanks to the shuttering of gay clubs displaced by Nationals Park. As the city’s above-board clubs struggled to secure properties and licenses in new neighborhoods, Men’s Parties reaped the benefits of their closures, under the table, courting business with ads that read: “The spirit of Southeast lives on.” That spirit included a little bit more than light snacking. “No one pays $12 to eat stale pretzels and off-label lemon lime soda,” the visitor says. “The snacks are placed in large communal bowls and grabbed by hands that have been up asses.” The club’s main activity required little overhead. “Many are having bareback sex, but some are only masturbating or receiving oral sex,” he says.</p>
<p>Twelve dollars may be a bit pricey for stale pretzels, but it’s a small price to pay for anonymity. And no one has benefited from the club’s secrecy more than its organizers. In a 2005 item on the fire, the <em>Blade</em> <a href="http://www.aegis.com/News/WB/2005/WB050632.html">declined to print the organizer’s name</a> because “he is not openly gay at his regular place of work.” The Oct. 4 death prompted the <em>Blade </em>to get a little bit more specific: “The organizer of the men’s parties…asked that he be identified only as David.” Even the run-down conditions of the club may have benefited the organizers. “A lot of people, gay and straight, don’t know the place exists,” says the partygoer. “Among those that do, there is such shame attached to go to the place—not because of the sex, but because it is so dirty, grimy, smelly—that most don’t talk about it openly.”</p>
<p>Records show that <strong>David J. Butler </strong><a href="http://mblr.dc.gov/corp/lookup/status.asp?id=185975">incorporated a domestic nonprofit </a>called the “D.C. Wrestling Club” at his Foggy Bottom apartment in 1994. The club’s members were described as “sports enthusiasts, especially of collegiate wrestling.” Butler, 68, is listed as the club’s president, treasurer, and registered agent. The club’s secretary, <strong>Robert D. Meza</strong>, listed his residence as 1618 14th St. NW. For a time, the incorporation lent an air of legitimacy to party organizers and provided an easy explanation for donation cash flow. The Department of Consumer and Regulatory Affairs has since revoked the Wrestling Club’s corporation status.</p>
<p>Butler did not return several messages left at the club’s advertised number, nor did he respond to a note left at his Foggy Bottom residence. Knocks at 1618 14th St. were unanswered.</p>
<p>If Men’s Parties remains closed, its clientele may be left without a place to meet up. Communication among this crowd of anonymous sex seekers, after all, has always been a bit awkward. Several years ago, a flier appeared in the neighborhood that read: “If you had sex with Skip at Men Party 1618 14th St You need to get tested HIV.”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2009/10/hivwarning1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-6949" title="hivwarning" src="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/files/2009/10/hivwarning1.jpg" alt="hivwarning" width="420" height="411" /></a></p>
<p><strong>UPDATE:</strong> <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/10/15/d-c-files-lawsuit-against-mens-parties/">District of Columbia files lawsuit against Men's Parties</a></p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2009/10/16/dc-police-describe-mens-parties-location-used-condoms-glory-holes-and-a-crucifix/">D.C. Police Describe Men's Parties Location: Used Condoms, Glory Holes, and a Crucifix</a></p></blockquote>
<p><strong><em>Photo by </em><em>Darrow Montgomery</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Lady Gaga Brings Pantless Pride to D.C. Equality March</title>
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Over the weekend, Lady Gaga promised to head down to D.C. for this Sunday's Equality March. At New York City's Bootleg party, Gaga announced:
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<p>Over the weekend,<strong> Lady Gaga</strong> <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/last_word/2009/10/lady-gaga-joins-equality-march.html">promised to head down to D.C.</a> for this Sunday's Equality March. At New York City's Bootleg party, Gaga announced:</p>
<blockquote><p>Listen, next week is the gay pride march. And I know that I'm going to be there marching with all of you. And the most exciting thing tonight is that we're all here together. And you can sign up at a table here to get a ticket on a free bus to D.C. So, you have no excuse. And if the buses are all filled up, there's tons of other ways to get there . . . And there's really no excuse for you not to go.</p></blockquote>
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<p>She continues:</p>
<blockquote><p>I was thinking to myself, 'If everyone in this room were to go and bring 10 friends&#8212;which I don't think is a lot to ask because you all have lots of friends&#8212;just from this one night, there would be 10,000 more people marching. . .  I really believe in this cause, and as a woman in pop music, I think that this is really an important weekend, and it's not a fucking joke. So, get your asses to D.C. and wear something fabulous. And I'll see you guys there, I love you so much.''</p></blockquote>
<p>And if those 10,000 people make good on the promise of wearing something Gaga approved, that means that the march is going to have 10,000 more <a href="http://www.celebuzz.com/celebrities/lady-gaga-photos/p33414241/">sexy limo drivers</a> sporting <a href="http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to/video/how-to-do-the-lady-gaga-poker-face-bow-hairstyle-272982/">outrageous hair-bows</a> but <a href="http://www.stylelist.com/blog/2009/01/25/lady-gaga-pantless-is-the-way-of-the-future/">no pants</a>. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/06/lady-gaga-topless-in-v-ma_n_226202.html">No shirts</a>, either. Where do I sign up?</p>
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Beers for queers: Not just in gay bars anymore
This week, Metro Weekly reported on three local gay social activists who have been organizing a monthly "Guerilla Queer Bar" in D.C. for the past five years. The concept is simple: Get a bunch of gay people together, descend upon a traditionally straight bar, and declare "We're [...]]]></description>
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<em>Beers for queers: Not just in gay bars anymore</em></p>
<p>This week, <em>Metro Weekly</em> reported on <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/feature/?ak=4139">three local gay social activists</a> who have been organizing a monthly "Guerilla Queer Bar" in D.C. for the past five years. The concept is simple: Get a bunch of gay people together, descend upon a traditionally straight bar, and declare "We're here, we're queer, we want a  beer." Then, like, drink the beer.</p>
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<p>After five years of monthly gay-on-straight beer runs, <strong>Karl Jones</strong>, <strong>Amy Mulry</strong>, and  <strong>Christopher Trott </strong>are recusing themselves from organizing duties&#8212;partly because the gay nightlife scene in D.C. has really diversified over the past five years, and partly because they're getting older and they're kind of sick of partying all the time. I think they should start a new monthly night for older queer scenesters, where they descend upon a traditionally straight sit-down restaurants and politely inform their servers: "We're here, we're queer, meh, we'll just have a water."</p>
<p>The last D.C. Guerilla Queer Bar under the trio will be held on Friday, April 3 at an undisclosed location. Find out where by signing up for <a href=" www.guerillaqueerbardc.com.">the Guerilla Queer Bar group here</a>.</p>
<p><em>Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/2908186658/"><strong>Tambako the Jaguar</strong></a></em></p>
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		<title>The Morning After: Anniversary Leather Edition</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2009 14:25:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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* Metro Weekly opines on 25 years of Mid-Atlantic Leather weekend.
* Tyra Banks finds the one woman who has never heard of Sarah Palin.
* Tiger Beatdown tells you who's faring better this week&#8212;chicks or dudes&#8212;based on evidence culled from extensive personal experience crack reporting a Google alert she's set up for "women than men". But [...]]]></description>
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<p>* <em>Metro Weekly</em> opines on <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=3999">25 years of Mid-Atlantic Leather weekend</a>.</p>
<p>* <strong>Tyra Banks</strong> finds <a href="http://jezebel.com/5131592/strange-but-true-woman-addicted-to-internet-has-never-heard-of-sarah-palin">the one woman</a> who has never heard of <strong>Sarah Palin</strong>.</p>
<p>* <strong>Tiger Beatdown</strong> tells you who's faring better this week&#8212;<a href="http://tigerbeatdown.blogspot.com/2009/01/chicks-against-dudes-responsible-post.html">chicks or dudes</a>&#8212;based on evidence culled from <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">extensive personal experience</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">crack reporting</span> a Google alert she's set up for "women than men". But take heed: " When it comes to the Dreaded Crotch Rot, no one wins."</p>
<p>* <strong>Gender Goggles</strong> gives a <a href="http://gendergoggles.com/2009/01/08/an-introduction-to-feminist-theory-so-what/">refresher course on feminist theory</a>.</p>
<p>*<strong> Melinda Hennebeger </strong>at <em>Slate</em>'s <strong>XX Factor</strong> <a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/blogs/xxfactor/archive/2009/01/14/ciao-for-now.aspx#">calls bullshit on this whole virgin auction</a> thing:</p>
<blockquote><p>So does that gal attempting to auction off her virginity to the highest bidder remind anyone else of the young woman at Yale who was supposedly documenting her multiple self-induced miscarriages as a senior art project a while back? Not that I have any trouble believing that lots of people would cash that check. Yet something about the whole enterprise seems fishy to me. And I dunno about those "housewives'' either; are they for real, or just hideously conforming to expectations?</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/trialsanderrors/3186507478/"><strong>trialsanderrors</strong></a>.</em></p>
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		<title>The Morning After: Gaza Stripped Edition</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 14:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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* Metro Weekly profiles two laid-off longtime Whitman Walker Clinic employees, Barbara Chinn and Pat Hawkins.
* The Post details Malia and Sasha's first day of school at Sidwell Friends:
Usually the recommencement of classes at a private school don't warrant breaking updates: The girls' motorcade left the Hay-Adams Hotel for Sidwell Friends School. They arrived early! [...]]]></description>
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<p>* <em>Metro Weekly</em> profiles <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=3983">two laid-off longtime Whitman Walker Clinic employees</a>, <strong>Barbara Chinn</strong> and Pat <strong>Hawkins</strong>.</p>
<p>* The <em>Post</em> details <strong>Malia </strong>and<strong> Sasha</strong>'s <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/01/05/AR2009010503270.html?wprss=rss_artsandliving">first day of school at Sidwell Friends</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Usually the recommencement of classes at a private school don't warrant breaking updates: The girls' motorcade left the Hay-Adams Hote<a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/ac2/related/topic/Hay-Adams+Hotel?tid=informline">l</a> for Sidwell Friends School. They arrived early! Several hours went by. Then they left!</p></blockquote>
<p>* <em>Slate</em>'s<strong> Dear Prudence </strong>answers "<a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2208127/?from=rss">Is it wrong to keep Viagra use a secret?</a>" (No), and offers up some unsolicited advice as well:</p>
<blockquote><p>I'm wondering why you feel the need for this boost. If you always require it, that's one thing. But if it's just insurance that you will be able to perform even though you're feeling insecure, that's possibly a signal that you should do less performing and more talking. If you don't need the pill, then leave it in the bottle and see how things go naturally.</p></blockquote>
<p>* <strong>Tiger Beatdown</strong>, in a <a href="http://tigerbeatdown.blogspot.com/2009/01/moral-boundaries.html">post on Gaza</a>, recalls "September, and the planes, and where you were, and how scared you felt, and how you kept calling people to see who was and was not okay":</p>
<blockquote><p>I remember being on the phone with an out-of-town friend and saying, "I'm so scared we're going to go to war. I'm so scared that we're going to retaliate, and that people will just keep dying."</p>
<p>"Obviously, we're going to go to war," he said, because in a crisis what you really want to do is prove once and for all that you are smarter than the person you are talking to, "and I can't say I disagree with that. We have to defend ourselves. When I look at the footage... anyone who could do this just isn't human." . . . "Everybody's human," was the only thing I could say at the time.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Photo via <strong><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/trialsanderrors/3161111044/">trialsanderrors</a></strong>.</em></p>
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		<title>Inside the Condo of the Police Shooting Victim</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 14:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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Last night, a commenter on this blog made the connection between a Washington Blade story identifying the victim of yesterday's police shooting as David Kerstetter, and a 2003 Metro Weekly feature which highlighted the home  Kerstetter shared with his now-deceased partner, Paul Brazitis. Kerstetter was shot and killed by police yesterday inside the condo&#8212;part [...]]]></description>
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<p>Last night, a commenter on this blog made the connection between a <em>Washington Blade</em> story identifying the victim of <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2008/11/06/police-shooting-victim-was-suicidal-mourning-loss-of-partner/">yesterday's police shooting</a> as <strong>David Kerstetter</strong>, and a <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/home/?ak=706">2003 <em>Metro Weekly</em> feature</a> which highlighted the home  Kerstetter shared with his now-deceased partner, <strong>Paul Brazitis</strong>. Kerstetter was shot and killed by police yesterday inside the condo&#8212;part of Logan Circle's Iowa building at 1325 13th St. NW&#8212;after he allegedly threatened officers with a knife. A neighbor, who identified Kerstetter to the <em>Blade</em>, said that Kerstetter was suicidal and mourning Brazitis, who died in October of last year. Five years ago, 1325 13th St. was a very different place.<br />
<span id="more-941"></span>It looks like they had a nice home life, and a really nice home: Crown molding, antique Austrian china set, a $15,000 Viking stove. That was five years ago, when the couple had the luxury of agonizing over interior decorating. Now, both men are dead. After the whirlwind tour of Kerstetter and Brazitis' immaculate home, the <em>Metro Weekly</em> piece ends this quote from Brazitis:</p>
<blockquote><p>We didn't consider having the inside of this [cabinet] stained &#8212; it was this ugly blonde wood inside. One day, I was in the other room painting and all the sudden there was this red mist through the entire house. David was [staining] this cabinet. All the new hardwood floors had red on them, the animals had red on them, we had red on us. That was one thing I should have put my foot down and said, "No!"</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Photo from Metro Weekly.</em></p>
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		<title>Gay Games Update: D.C. Still Could Get Gay Games!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 17:29:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Metro Weekly has an update on Washington, D.C.'s bid for the 2014 Gay Games. According to the paper, "D.C.'s bid, which included a requisite $1,000 fee, came from the Metropolitan Washington Gaymes Inc., a nonprofit 501c3 set up specifically for the Gay Games bid." Brent Minor, president of GLBT sporting organization Team DC, attended the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Metro Weekly </em><a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=3873">has an update</a> on Washington, D.C.'s <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2008/10/30/dc-could-get-gay-games/">bid for the 2014 Gay Games</a>. According to the paper, "D.C.'s bid, which included a requisite $1,000 fee, came from the Metropolitan Washington Gaymes Inc., a nonprofit 501c3 set up specifically for the Gay Games bid."<strong> Brent Minor</strong>, president of GLBT sporting organization Team DC, attended the Federation of Gay Games meeting in Cape Town, South Africa, last month, where he was elected co-president of the organization's Board of Directors. ''Washington, D.C., has a strong, committed, diverse organizing committee that is experienced in running international gay, sport tournaments," he said of D.C.'s chances. "Our clubs have hosted every major gay, sport tournament that there is. I think that bodes well for our city.''</p>
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		<title>This Week in GLBT News: Inside Metro Weekly and The Blade</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 15:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Metro Weekly fronts its election round-up this week, reporting on gay issues in the District, Maryland, and Virginia races. In "Outing the Vote," Will O'Bryan sums up election day for GLBT wonks: "For politically minded locals," he writes, "Tuesday, Nov. 4, is the Super Bowl, World Series and American Idol finale, all rolled into one&#8212;on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Metro Weekly </em><a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/feature/?ak=3846">fronts its election round-up this week</a>, reporting on gay issues in the District, Maryland, and Virginia races. In "Outing the Vote," <strong>Will O'Bryan</strong> sums up election day for GLBT wonks: "For politically minded locals," he writes, "Tuesday, Nov. 4, is the Super Bowl, World Series and <em>American Idol</em> finale, all rolled into one&#8212;on steroids, with a cherry on top." <em>Metro Weekly</em> also has <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/arts_entertainment/dance.php?ak=3849">a nice feature</a> on queer-identifying Indian dancer <strong>Aniruddhan Vasudevan</strong>, who performs with the Dakshina/Daniel Phoenix Singh Dance Company this weekend.</p>
<p><em>The Washington Blade </em>continues to exhaustively report crimes within and against D.C.'s GLBT community. Yesterday, <strong>Lou Chibbaro Jr. </strong>reported on <a href="http://www.washingtonblade.com/thelatest/thelatest.cfm?blog_id=21911">a robbery at Dupont Circle gay bar</a> The Fireplace. The robbery&#8212;and the assault of an employee that occurred during the theft&#8212;are not classified as hate crimes, Chibbaro notes. Chibbaro also has a profile of <strong>Trevor Potter</strong>, the <a href="http://www.washingtonblade.com/thelatest/thelatest.cfm?blog_id=21908">openly gay top attorney</a> for the McCain campaign. Meanwhile, <strong>Chris Johnson</strong> has an <a href="http://www.washingtonblade.com/thelatest/thelatest.cfm?blog_id=21918">update on the fight for Prop 8</a>.</p>
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		<title>Assault Victim Dies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 19:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tony Randolph Hunter, the victim of an assault outside Mt. Vernon Square nightclub BeBar, has died, Metro Weekly reports. Hunter, a gay man, was struck in the back of the head while walking near the club on the evening September 7th. He died yesterday afternoon.
The incident is being investigated as a hate crime by MPD. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Tony Randolph Hunter</strong>, the victim of an assault outside Mt. Vernon Square nightclub <a href="http://www.bebardc.com/">BeBar</a>, <a href="http://dcist.com/2008/09/18/man_attacked_near_be_bar_dies.php">has died</a>, <a href="http://www.metroweekly.com/gauge/?ak=3787">Metro Weekly</a> reports. Hunter, a gay man, was struck in the back of the head while walking near the club on the evening September 7th. He died yesterday afternoon.</p>
<p>The incident is being investigated as a hate crime by MPD. Hunter's assault is <a href="http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/display.php?id=36166">one of several recent incidents</a> that have heightened attention on hate crime investigation in the District. I'll update with more as the investigation continues.</p>
<p><strong>Update</strong>: Feministing has a piece on the <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/011117.html">perceived spike of LGBT-related hate crimes</a> in the District. <strong>Miriam </strong>notes that "Nationally, around 16% of hate crimes are LGBT related. In DC, it's 60%." Miriam also points readers to the resurgence of <span id="fullpost">D.C.'s GLBT Anti-Violence Group, or "GLOV." GLOV was active in the 1990's, but stopped meeting in recent years. On Monday, Sept. 22, the group will begin meeting again. Interested parties can join GLOV at the l</span><span id="fullpost">aw offices of Dewey and LeBoeuf, 1101 New York Avenue NW, at 7:30 p.m.<br />
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