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	<title>Comments on: Why Young Readers Don&#8217;t Like Romance Novel Rapists</title>
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		<title>By: Alba Kohan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alba Kohan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: ll</title>
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		<dc:creator>ll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 02:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Late reply, but to be clear, I&#039;m not championing old school romance novels and their rape-y heroes. I&#039;m noting that as the Smart Bitches pointed out, it was a change. Not the most awesome change, but a change for the better. As others have noted here, rape-y heroes are no longer anything like the norm. Which is totally of the good.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Late reply, but to be clear, I&#8217;m not championing old school romance novels and their rape-y heroes. I&#8217;m noting that as the Smart Bitches pointed out, it was a change. Not the most awesome change, but a change for the better. As others have noted here, rape-y heroes are no longer anything like the norm. Which is totally of the good.</p>
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		<title>By: Last Week&#8217;s Most Popular Blog Posts - The Sexist - Washington City Paper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Last Week&#8217;s Most Popular Blog Posts - The Sexist - Washington City Paper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 20:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Sexist Beatdown: Rape Fantasy Edition - The Sexist - Washington City Paper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sexist Beatdown: Rape Fantasy Edition - The Sexist - Washington City Paper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 13:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] how a handsome and affable doctor who rapes, forcibly marries, and impregnates a young woman is a totally awful and fucked up hero to write into your romance [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Lilian Nattel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lilian Nattel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 18:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the change is cause for celebration. As the mother of two young daughters I find it greatly encouraging.</description>
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		<title>By: amellifera</title>
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		<dc:creator>amellifera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 17:44:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Funny how this issue has been on my mind lately.  I recently caught Jack Murnighan&#039;s segment on NPR&#039;s Guilty Pleasures series. He admitted to loving romance novels for the rape fantasies.  He read an excerpt from &quot;Sweet, Savage Love&quot; by Rosemary Rodgers that made me physically cringe.

&quot;He held her weak, trembling body, and when she would have protested against the liberties he was taking, his lips covered her mouth ... stifling the words she tried to utter ... She struggled then, but only half-heartedly; both his arms imprisoned her again, she closed her eyes and let him have his way ...&quot;

He admitted to reading them in faculty meetings and that they made his heart go &quot;oingo boingo.&quot;  Then he said this, &quot;See, I had always thought that the idea of coercing the fairer sex into abandonment stemmed more from the male than the female gray matter. ... Not unlike the great late-teen realization that girls like sex too, the very thought that men and women were occasionally conjuring the same sugarplums made me feel much closer to my female compeers in general, and less like a creeping lust monster.&quot;  Even though he&#039;s fully aware that his fellow female faculty members might be horrified by his reading habits.

I guess it must be because I&#039;m younger that I DO find him to be a creeping lust monster.  My mom had a well-hidden box of romance novels I occasionally dipped into as a teen (she never knew I found them).  I never judged her for enjoying the rapiness of the stories, nor any of the other women fond of them.  So I couldn&#039;t figure out why this guy disturbed me so much.  I still don&#039;t quite know.

I also vividly remember reading Margaret Atwood&#039;s essay on rape fantasies and strange men coming through your window at night ... 
&quot;Listen,&quot; I said, &quot;those aren&#039;t &lt;i&gt;rape&lt;/i&gt; fantasies.  I mean, you aren&#039;t getting &lt;i&gt;raped&lt;/i&gt;, it&#039;s just some guy you haven&#039;t met formally who happens to be more attractive than Derek Cummins and you have a good time.&quot;

I think that&#039;s the deal with the older romances.    They don&#039;t bother me as a woman&#039;s rape fantasy, somehow, because it isn&#039;t as troubling from inside the woman&#039;s head in a society that requires women to resist premarital sex.  But from the male perspective, ie getting off on (at best) dubious consent and the whole she-secretly-wants-it thing ... is really disturbing to me.  It&#039;s funny because the rape scene in The Fountainhead made me so angry that I was literally shaking, and I read this at the same time of life.  

That said, the romance novels became less titillating to me once I actually learned about sex.  The rapiness was never a turn-on.  No one watches Birth of a Nation because they love the story; it&#039;s racist and disgusting.  People still watch it for the cinematic progress, but I don&#039;t think there&#039;s much literary progress going on in romance novels.  So I hope they slowly go out of print to make way for less problematic fluff.  It&#039;s one thing to take cultural context into account when reading from a critic standpoint, an entirely different matter when reading for fun.  In terms of silent film, give me The General any day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Funny how this issue has been on my mind lately.  I recently caught Jack Murnighan&#8217;s segment on NPR&#8217;s Guilty Pleasures series. He admitted to loving romance novels for the rape fantasies.  He read an excerpt from &#8220;Sweet, Savage Love&#8221; by Rosemary Rodgers that made me physically cringe.</p>
<p>&#8220;He held her weak, trembling body, and when she would have protested against the liberties he was taking, his lips covered her mouth &#8230; stifling the words she tried to utter &#8230; She struggled then, but only half-heartedly; both his arms imprisoned her again, she closed her eyes and let him have his way &#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>He admitted to reading them in faculty meetings and that they made his heart go &#8220;oingo boingo.&#8221;  Then he said this, &#8220;See, I had always thought that the idea of coercing the fairer sex into abandonment stemmed more from the male than the female gray matter. &#8230; Not unlike the great late-teen realization that girls like sex too, the very thought that men and women were occasionally conjuring the same sugarplums made me feel much closer to my female compeers in general, and less like a creeping lust monster.&#8221;  Even though he&#8217;s fully aware that his fellow female faculty members might be horrified by his reading habits.</p>
<p>I guess it must be because I&#8217;m younger that I DO find him to be a creeping lust monster.  My mom had a well-hidden box of romance novels I occasionally dipped into as a teen (she never knew I found them).  I never judged her for enjoying the rapiness of the stories, nor any of the other women fond of them.  So I couldn&#8217;t figure out why this guy disturbed me so much.  I still don&#8217;t quite know.</p>
<p>I also vividly remember reading Margaret Atwood&#8217;s essay on rape fantasies and strange men coming through your window at night &#8230;<br />
&#8220;Listen,&#8221; I said, &#8220;those aren&#8217;t <i>rape</i> fantasies.  I mean, you aren&#8217;t getting <i>raped</i>, it&#8217;s just some guy you haven&#8217;t met formally who happens to be more attractive than Derek Cummins and you have a good time.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think that&#8217;s the deal with the older romances.    They don&#8217;t bother me as a woman&#8217;s rape fantasy, somehow, because it isn&#8217;t as troubling from inside the woman&#8217;s head in a society that requires women to resist premarital sex.  But from the male perspective, ie getting off on (at best) dubious consent and the whole she-secretly-wants-it thing &#8230; is really disturbing to me.  It&#8217;s funny because the rape scene in The Fountainhead made me so angry that I was literally shaking, and I read this at the same time of life.  </p>
<p>That said, the romance novels became less titillating to me once I actually learned about sex.  The rapiness was never a turn-on.  No one watches Birth of a Nation because they love the story; it&#8217;s racist and disgusting.  People still watch it for the cinematic progress, but I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s much literary progress going on in romance novels.  So I hope they slowly go out of print to make way for less problematic fluff.  It&#8217;s one thing to take cultural context into account when reading from a critic standpoint, an entirely different matter when reading for fun.  In terms of silent film, give me The General any day.</p>
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		<title>By: Tessa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:17:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found this very interesting. I have read trashy romance novels since 6th grade and now I am a librarian. When I was younger, the only ones I could get my hands on were the old rapey-heroes and virginal ice-queens. I actually think it did affect me in my formative sex-ed years. I learned that good girls get raped by their love interests, otherwise they are bad girls and bad things happen to bad girls. How horrible is that? Thank goodness romance novels have moved past this &quot;ideal relationship&quot;. I don&#039;t think I had even really noticed the lack of rape scenes in contemporary romances until a few months ago when I picked up a new Johanna Lindsey novel and there was an actual rape in the second chapter. By the hero of the novel. I refused to read any more and classified it as a bad book.

I do think that one needs to read novels within the context of their time, however, good novels are rather timeless. (This being said, very few romance novels would qualify as good literature and so cannot hope to be timeless). I would also argue that reading romance novels is an excellent way to get at the social constructs and feel of a certain time period. This information is more useful for culture studies than literature studies, but still very valuable. The average woman reads romance novels (or man) and it is these average people who make up a large segment of society.

Do I think that I should still be allowed to snark old romances from before I was born? Oh yea. That is part of the fun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this very interesting. I have read trashy romance novels since 6th grade and now I am a librarian. When I was younger, the only ones I could get my hands on were the old rapey-heroes and virginal ice-queens. I actually think it did affect me in my formative sex-ed years. I learned that good girls get raped by their love interests, otherwise they are bad girls and bad things happen to bad girls. How horrible is that? Thank goodness romance novels have moved past this &#8220;ideal relationship&#8221;. I don&#8217;t think I had even really noticed the lack of rape scenes in contemporary romances until a few months ago when I picked up a new Johanna Lindsey novel and there was an actual rape in the second chapter. By the hero of the novel. I refused to read any more and classified it as a bad book.</p>
<p>I do think that one needs to read novels within the context of their time, however, good novels are rather timeless. (This being said, very few romance novels would qualify as good literature and so cannot hope to be timeless). I would also argue that reading romance novels is an excellent way to get at the social constructs and feel of a certain time period. This information is more useful for culture studies than literature studies, but still very valuable. The average woman reads romance novels (or man) and it is these average people who make up a large segment of society.</p>
<p>Do I think that I should still be allowed to snark old romances from before I was born? Oh yea. That is part of the fun.</p>
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		<title>By: Bookninja &#187; Blog Archive &#187; What&#8217;s With The 70&#8217;s Rape?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bookninja &#187; Blog Archive &#187; What&#8217;s With The 70&#8217;s Rape?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 07:11:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] novels don&#8217;t usually get the respect they deserve. Take a look at this interesting post on the shifting &#8216;zeitgeist&#8217; of the romance novel In the 1970s and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Pope Lizbet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pope Lizbet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 21:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Maria Jovan:

&quot;My point was that to purport to study or review romance novels without taking into account the time in which it was written is to be intellectually dishonest and/or lazy.&quot;

From your article: &quot;I’m not sure why there’s this unwillingness to go along with the zeitgeist of the time in which the book was written, but instead to apply today’s standards of fashion or technology or pop culture as markers of timelessness.&quot;

I&#039;m not really concerned about &quot;markers of timelessness&quot; as regards romance novels. I just prefer my books without rape as love. I guess I&#039;m intellectually dishonest and lazy, too; how dare I apply my &quot;modern&quot; standards of &quot;repeated rape doesn&#039;t cause women to love their rapists&quot; to my entertainment? Shame on me. 

I will remember next time that I am tempted to be snarky about patently offensive things in literature that has already been printed that I have to remember that it is a product of a racist, sexist, vastly broken culture, and that I thus cannot criticize it, because to expect better of the books I read is to be intellectually dishonest and too lazy to place them in historical context.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Maria Jovan:</p>
<p>&#8220;My point was that to purport to study or review romance novels without taking into account the time in which it was written is to be intellectually dishonest and/or lazy.&#8221;</p>
<p>From your article: &#8220;I’m not sure why there’s this unwillingness to go along with the zeitgeist of the time in which the book was written, but instead to apply today’s standards of fashion or technology or pop culture as markers of timelessness.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not really concerned about &#8220;markers of timelessness&#8221; as regards romance novels. I just prefer my books without rape as love. I guess I&#8217;m intellectually dishonest and lazy, too; how dare I apply my &#8220;modern&#8221; standards of &#8220;repeated rape doesn&#8217;t cause women to love their rapists&#8221; to my entertainment? Shame on me. </p>
<p>I will remember next time that I am tempted to be snarky about patently offensive things in literature that has already been printed that I have to remember that it is a product of a racist, sexist, vastly broken culture, and that I thus cannot criticize it, because to expect better of the books I read is to be intellectually dishonest and too lazy to place them in historical context.</p>
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		<title>By: hey, what have you got against Fleetwood Mac? &#171; Books to the Sky</title>
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		<dc:creator>hey, what have you got against Fleetwood Mac? &#171; Books to the Sky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 20:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] hey, what have you got against Fleetwood&#160;Mac? July 14, 2009 Filed under: romance, tropes and conventions &#8212; fshk @ 8:00 pm    Hey, wanna hear something crazy? You know how I don&#8217;t like rapey romance heroes? It&#8217;s because I am a Young Person!. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] hey, what have you got against Fleetwood&nbsp;Mac? July 14, 2009 Filed under: romance, tropes and conventions &#8212; fshk @ 8:00 pm    Hey, wanna hear something crazy? You know how I don&#8217;t like rapey romance heroes? It&#8217;s because I am a Young Person!. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Moriah Jovan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Moriah Jovan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 16:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You missed my point.

Romance novels are being studied in a scholarly fashion. When doing literary criticism in a scholarly fashion, one takes into account the time in which the book was written. I don&#039;t think romance novels should be excluded from this.

I wasn&#039;t making a moral judgment as to the rightness or wrongness of it or how its presented, and I did make a point to separate legal rape from what is presented in the 70s and 80s romance novels.

My point was that to purport to study or review romance novels without taking into account the time in which it was written is to be intellectually dishonest and/or lazy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You missed my point.</p>
<p>Romance novels are being studied in a scholarly fashion. When doing literary criticism in a scholarly fashion, one takes into account the time in which the book was written. I don&#8217;t think romance novels should be excluded from this.</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t making a moral judgment as to the rightness or wrongness of it or how its presented, and I did make a point to separate legal rape from what is presented in the 70s and 80s romance novels.</p>
<p>My point was that to purport to study or review romance novels without taking into account the time in which it was written is to be intellectually dishonest and/or lazy.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda Hess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda Hess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ll: That&#039;s an interesting point, but one I can&#039;t entirely get behind in the context of rapists-as-love-interests. I&#039;m not too personally familiar with these works, so let me know if I&#039;m off-base here:

Sure, the woman who is raped isn&#039;t &quot;spoiled forever.&quot; But the rapist-turned-boyfriend ain&#039;t spoiled, either---he&#039;s never punished for raping a woman. If we look at it that way, the rape victim isn&#039;t spoiled because she is never identified as &quot;being raped&quot;---she&#039;s just playing her set role in the rape-courtship.

So while the rape victim here isn&#039;t spoiled, it&#039;s important to look at WHY she isn&#039;t. Is it because, in these books, being a victim of rape is not seen as a source of shame? Or is it because, in these books, RAPING is not seen as a source of shame? If she&#039;s only un-spoiled because she doesn&#039;t leave (or out) her rapist, is that the kind of &quot;moving on&quot; we should hold up as a romantic ideal?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ll: That&#8217;s an interesting point, but one I can&#8217;t entirely get behind in the context of rapists-as-love-interests. I&#8217;m not too personally familiar with these works, so let me know if I&#8217;m off-base here:</p>
<p>Sure, the woman who is raped isn&#8217;t &#8220;spoiled forever.&#8221; But the rapist-turned-boyfriend ain&#8217;t spoiled, either&#8212;he&#8217;s never punished for raping a woman. If we look at it that way, the rape victim isn&#8217;t spoiled because she is never identified as &#8220;being raped&#8221;&#8212;she&#8217;s just playing her set role in the rape-courtship.</p>
<p>So while the rape victim here isn&#8217;t spoiled, it&#8217;s important to look at WHY she isn&#8217;t. Is it because, in these books, being a victim of rape is not seen as a source of shame? Or is it because, in these books, RAPING is not seen as a source of shame? If she&#8217;s only un-spoiled because she doesn&#8217;t leave (or out) her rapist, is that the kind of &#8220;moving on&#8221; we should hold up as a romantic ideal?</p>
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		<title>By: ll</title>
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		<dc:creator>ll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 03:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In the book about romance novels that Smart Bitches, Trashy Books put out they had an excellent excellent point that one thing that gets missed and ignored about those rape-y stories: these were novels where women who were raped were not spoiled forever. They found love, they moved on. So yes, rapey! heroes. But also, as messages to women go, a damn sight better read than Tess of the Durbervilles. As an example.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the book about romance novels that Smart Bitches, Trashy Books put out they had an excellent excellent point that one thing that gets missed and ignored about those rape-y stories: these were novels where women who were raped were not spoiled forever. They found love, they moved on. So yes, rapey! heroes. But also, as messages to women go, a damn sight better read than Tess of the Durbervilles. As an example.</p>
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		<title>By: mdesus</title>
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		<dc:creator>mdesus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 22:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah now they like romance novels without sex, or any real physical contact.  This lack of sex is of course do to some super magical thing embodied in the form of an ageless man with wonderul lessons to teach the world.  No not jesus a vampire.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah now they like romance novels without sex, or any real physical contact.  This lack of sex is of course do to some super magical thing embodied in the form of an ageless man with wonderul lessons to teach the world.  No not jesus a vampire.</p>
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