Comments on: It’s Not Rape If The Sex Offender Is Hot

By: bob

bob — Thu, 06 May 2010 20:55:27 +0000

this is a funny vid for me to see because 1: whoever that kid was was a lucky bastard and probly only regrets he didnt keep his shit on the lowdown a lil better and 2: Because with the assistance of her fathers cell phone, she was able to send the same kid naked pics of herself and naked sex vids which got her into way more trouble and a way worse sentence. This is a straight up messed up kinkky bitch whos either probly too messed up and/or kinky for her own good. She's an ex supermodel or some shit, so you know unless the kids a fag he probably still jacks off to pics or just memories of this crazy hoe

By: Peter Piper

Peter Piper — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 15:41:22 +0000

Btw. why does this girl have to be shackled like an animal? Are they afraid she will rape someone in the audience? She looks like not much more than a teenager herself.

By: Peter Piper

Peter Piper — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 15:38:14 +0000

Re: "As we all know, people who have sex with children are disgusting perverts"

In Canada and most countries of Europe the age of consent is either 14 or 15. Are you saying that someone who has a relationship with somone who is legal age is a disgusting pervert?

In your view, someone who has a relationship with someone who is 17 is a perver, but if the person is 18 it is just fine?

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The Media Goes Hot For Bad Teacher - The Sexist - Washington City Paper — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 19:43:49 +0000

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Sexist Comments of the Week - The Sexist - Washington City Paper — Fri, 08 May 2009 19:37:26 +0000

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By: Eleonora D'Arborea

Eleonora D'Arborea — Fri, 08 May 2009 17:41:08 +0000

"I’m not going to venture to say that what sexual predators do can ever truly make sense. But when a woman preys on a young man, I can’t help but think that some of the compulsion here lies in subverting the traditional gender dynamic."

Amanda! This is why I almost never read your column. You are sitting there with the entire internet at your fingertips, and the opportunity to share actual information with many people.

How about you (1) do a search to see what has been written on the topic, and (2) call a few experts to ask their opinions and then (3) write up a few of the things you have learned? Is that too much to ask of someone who writes the only news/culture gender-conscious feature in the City Paper?

Sigh.

By: Amanda Hess

Amanda Hess — Fri, 08 May 2009 16:59:41 +0000

David, I agree with you that neither "pedophile" and "tenderoni" seem to fit here. I also agree the women are attractive, and at least socially adept enough to be hired as schoolteachers. So why do they want to have sex with underage boys? Remember that these women are risking their jobs, reputations, and free lives in order to do it. In Letourneau's case, she even served time, was released, and returned to the boy again (they're now married). How do we account for this compulsion to do so despite the consequences? I'm not going to venture to say that what sexual predators do can ever truly make sense. But when a woman preys on a young man, I can't help but think that some of the compulsion here lies in subverting the traditional gender dynamic. Sure, many of these women could probably have their pick of men of legal-age. But while those men might want them, would they need them like an underage kid does?

By: David

David — Fri, 08 May 2009 16:41:15 +0000

This is sort of odd, 'cause their list... the women are really really hot. So why would women, who can get their pick of the lekking order, want adolescent boys? The lonliness excuse doesn't fly, 'cause they can get whoever. i don't think it's fair to call them pedophiles if they're not pursuing pre-adolescents, but... and the whole "tenderoni" thing implies it's not exploitative and/or predatory...

By: mftman

mftman — Thu, 07 May 2009 22:03:50 +0000

Those men who think the boys were lucky are possibly sex offenders as well. They may think they, themselves, would be "luck bastards" to have a 15 y.o. girl have sex with them: in most states this would be called 3rd Degree Sexual Assault.

Female sex offenders of male teens screw up the boy's lives in many ways, with relationships at the top of the list. If you are a selfish pig who thinks sex is only about getting your own rocks off without regard to the other person, you will disagree with me. In my mind, that is a good thing that you think I'm wrong!

By: mdesus

mdesus — Wed, 06 May 2009 21:13:49 +0000

lucky bastards those guys.

By: Wrack

Wrack — Wed, 06 May 2009 17:12:55 +0000

Ah yes, the wonderfully sexually-secure airs that men put on to prove how cool we are for other men who are also putting on the same sexually-secure airs. Poseurs.