Inside Big Penis Dating Site “Seven or Better”
Take a look inside 7orbetter.com—before you let one inside you.
Yesterday, I took my first trip around the big penis dating site 7orbetter.com, an exclusive online community for men with penises that measure seven inches or longer, and the women who love them.
The site is the brainchild of Steven Pasternack, a Miami, Fla. entrepreneur who is no stranger to the dating woes of the well-endowed. Pasternack is also the man behind sugardaddie.com, an online dating site “Where the classy, attractive, and affluent meet.”
Pasternack’s anatomically-based venture, launched a couple of weeks ago, “is not a joke,” Pasternack, 45, confirms. “Believe it or not, this is a very important thing for some women. They’re looking for the size, but they still want a well-rounded, quality guy.”
Pasternack says the inspiration for the Web site came “from a female friend of mine,” who confided in Pasternack that “she wants to meet quality guys, but when it comes time to go to bed with the guy, she’s sometimes disappointed with how the guy can please her,” says Pasternack. “She said it would be nice to know up-front what she can get from them.”
The Web site has already attracted nearly a thousand women like her: There are currently 875 female members listed on the site. There are also 869 men, indicating that there are as many men out there advertising big penises as there are women who want them. “The men are interested in signing up, obviously, because they’re proud of what they have. They’re glad they have a place to say hey—I’ve got eight inches, or nine. It’s not a matter of bragging. Some women can’t handle what they have, sexually, and it turns out to be a disappointment for [the man]. They want the women to know up-front what they have—so it works both ways, actually.”
The member profiles are on par with most online dating sites—age, height, weight, smoking or not—except that men are also asked to report the length of their penises, and whether or not they are circumcised. Men must claim seven inch penises “or better” to be eligible to use the site; there are no sign-up requirements for women.
Pasternack arrived at the magic number seven after “consulting a few female friends,” he says. “Most of them had a preference for six-and-a-half or seven. I rounded up to seven.” Men aren’t asked to report girth. “Girth—that’s a good question. We’re considering adding that as a category,” says Pasternack.
Pasternack insists that beyond the dimensions, 7orbetter.com is a dating site like any other, and obscene language, revealing photos, or prostitution dealings will not be tolerated. Still, Pasternack admits that revealing one’s penis size alongside his snorkeling interest might be considered inappropriate in any other venue. “I don’t think it would sit very well with eHarmony,” says Pasternack. “Match.com, I don’t think they’re ready for this either.”
But how do women know whether a man’s self-reported penis size is accurate? The Web site’s terms of use notes that “Any information posted on 7orbetter.com’s website must conform to reality and be accurate in its description and content.” If you are a member of 7orbetter.com, and you do meet up with a man you believe is misrepresenting his penis size, you can always report him to Pasternack. Pasternack says that once two or more women report that a man isn’t packing what hes reported, he’s off the site. “Sometimes, a person could be acting vindictively. You never know,” says Pasternack. “So we wait for two separate complaints to revoke his membership.” So far, no members have failed to measure up.
As for Pasternack, who is married, 7orbetter.com is strictly a business interest—you won’t find Pasternack’s profile, or his measurements, on the site. But if 7orbetter.com were around when Pasternack was dating, would he have been eligible? “That’s a very personal question,” says Pasternack. “If you must know, yes. Yes I would be.”
Photo by Maui in Vermont
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1:42 pm
Amanda, you’re being heteronormative. The lede should read, “…an exclusive online community for men with penises that measure seven inches or longer, and the women and men who love them.”
Waaaah heteronormative blah blah blah
1:50 pm
Thanks for pointing out my inherent bias. Just because Steve Pasternack’s vision was inspired by women does not mean that it precludes the interests of gay men, or for that matter, gay women, who can also join the community.
2:37 pm
Thanks for the article on the site! I have always wished there was a site like this or that match or eharmony would list a man’s penis size, but I knew that would never happen. Now this site came out and I just joined. Wish me luck!
2:40 pm
Good luck …
1:01 pm
What a great site. Now i can find men that i want to be with,which includes him been well endowed. I like a guys package to be at least 8 inches or more.
1:04 pm
I am not one of those guys with a 6” cock looking for a huge 8” I’m not that greedy. I am a guy with a 3.5” cock and even worse it was less then 1” when non erect, in most cases this was even more embarrassing then having such a small erect cock.
I am married and my wife always says that she loves my cock, it works fine two kids and all that but I see it in her eyes when we watch porn that she would love me to have a larger cock. I would love to make that happen but not just for that reason. I workout a lot and I am always at the gym. Ever since dreading the showers at my high school gym and having the guys and girls tease me about it all through school and it never stopped even as an adult you get guys smirking and laughing when they glance my tiny cock, I have had guys say aren’t you in the wrong locker room? Assholes yes but there is some truth to it. It is hard to feel like a real man when you are so small down there
8:56 am
Well having a guy who is endowed is fine.But if all we are focosing is the size of a guys penis were in trouble.I want a guy who has a job is not a drug addict ,is caring and so on. If the only thing your looking for is a big dick you might just end up with one .
7:36 am
It would have taken me a long long time to understand so much without your help.
2:06 pm
Without some sort of confirmation (picture with date and screenname in the frame, etc) it’s kind of silly. Dudes will lie about their size, and probably a good portion of memebers(no pun, lol) are lying… just the nature of the beast. Heck, see Kinsey’s research(self measured penis size) compared to studies done where measurement was done by an unbiased party…big difference.