Test Case: You're Not a Rape Victim Unless Police Say So This is the story of the night Hannah was not officially raped.
By
Amanda Hess on April 9, 2010
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Darrow Montgomery
On Saturday, Dec. 9, 2006, Hannah* woke up in her Howard University dorm room with a piece of her life missing. Hannah, a 19-year-old sophomore, had unexplained pain in her rectum and hip. Her panty liner, which she had worn the night before, was missing. Vomit dotted her gloves and coat. Her friend Kerston lay beside her in the skinny dorm room bed. Kerston told Hannah not to shower—they had to go back to the hospital to secure a rape kit. That weekend, Hannah claims that she was provided the following excuses for why she could not receive a sexual assault medical forensic examination: She was drunk; she ate a sandwich; she was a liar; she didn’t know her attacker’s last name; the police had to authorize the exam; she was outside the hospital’s jurisdiction; she wasn’t reporting a real crime; she was blacked out; she changed her story; her case was already closed.
This is the story of the night Hannah was not officially raped. And so far, Hannah has not officially accused anyone of raping her. In the summer of 2007, she filed a lawsuit against the District of Columbia, Howard University Hospital, George Washington University Hospital, both universities, and several doctors she says denied or interfered with her medical care. She seeks damages for medical malpractice and negligence from the medical defendants and the D.C. police, which she says resulted in “the probable loss of the opportunity to see her assailant brought to justice.” Across the board, the defendants denied Hannah’s claims. The parties in the case, which has yet to go to trial, were not interviewed for this story; this account is reconstructed from sworn deposition testimony taken in Hannah’s suit.
It was a Friday night in the middle of finals, the end of the first semester of sophomore year. Some Howard guys who lived in an off-campus house on Bryant Street were throwing an off-campus birthday party for Daniel, a friend of Hannah’s. She convinced a couple of friends to come with her. They pre-gamed in Hannah’s friend Sade’s room, sipped on cups of Malibu mixed with fruit punch, and then walked the half-mile to the house.
There, Hannah, Sade, and Kerston engaged in normal college party activities—they filled their cups with red spiked punch from the Gatorade containers in the kitchen, danced in the darkened living room, and chatted on the couch in the middle of the house. Amanda, another friend from school, arrived later and joined the group. They all obeyed the Howard boys’ house rule: Nobody goes upstairs.
Enforcing the directive was Tito, a big, muscular guy who grew up in the shadow of the university. Hannah had seen Tito around campus before. They met through her older sister, a bank employee and Howard grad six years her senior. Tito testified that he met Hannah’s sister when she sprained her ankle playing tennis and took an ambulance to the hospital. Tito, the EMT who responded to the scene, managed to secure her number on the ride, and they went out a few times. When Hannah started school at Howard, Tito introduced himself to her, gave her a ride home from the movies once, and hit on some of her friends. Tito had worked security at area nightclubs when he wasn’t on duty, and he sometimes volunteered his services to Howard house parties. At the Bryant Street party, he stood inside the door, screened kids for drugs and knives, and stopped anyone who tried to mount the stairs.
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As reinforcement for Tito, the housemates had erected a furniture barricade at the foot of stairs—a few chairs stacked together to prevent partygoers from sneaking up to the second floor. Brandon, one of the Howard boys hosting the party, told partygoers that he had blocked off the stairs because the bathroom wasn’t working. Actually, the toilet was fine—Brandon was so fastidious about protecting his stuff that he blocked off the house’s only toilet. Guests were forced to pee at another party across the street, or in the alley behind the house.
A couple of hours of partying later, the music started to slow down, the lights turned on, and the girls decided it was time to go. By then, it was early morning. In a deposition, Hannah testified that she was dancing with Bilal, a Howard student who lived with Brandon in the house. When Hannah woke up the next day, this is the last thing she would remember: “He was getting a little rough, and I remember trying to kind of just get away from him,” she recalled in the deposition. “I remember I tried to stop dancing with him.…[There was] a little too much of sexual suggestion.…just touching me too much.” She started to feel blurry, woozy, dizzy, “and then nothing.”
As the party wound down, Kerston, Sade, and Amanda briefly left the room to retrieve the crew’s coats. When they returned to the living room, the girls testified that Hannah and Bilal were gone. They called her cell phone. She didn’t pick up. They looked for her around the first floor of the house, on the stoop, in the back alley. She wasn’t there. They asked other students at the party if they had seen her. They hadn’t. They start calling her name. No response. After looking for her for several minutes, there was only one place she could be.
“So I go to the steps,” Sade testified in a deposition. “I move [the barricade],” she said. “I’m walking up the steps, and Tito like just comes behind me. He grabs my arm…and he literally like brings me back down the steps.…And I’m like get off me, what are you talking about?” The three girls gathered around Tito and told them they were just looking for their friend; Tito explained that he’d been hired to keep people from reaching the second floor. At first, the girls had suspected that Hannah had just gone upstairs to use the restroom, but after a few minutes of arguing with Tito, they grew more concerned. “So at this point like I’m mad,” Sade testified. “At this point we’re yelling. I don’t know what I’m saying exactly, but I’m yelling.” The girls began screaming Hannah’s name up the stairs, hoping she’d hear them and come down. She didn’t.
After five minutes of yelling, the girls insisted that Tito go up the stairs to look for her himself. Tito testified that he climbed the stairs, saw an empty bathroom and some locked bedroom doors—but no Hannah—and reoccupied his post at the foot of the stairs. When he returned, “he was sweating,” Kerston testified. “I remember him taking off his hat and rubbing, like wiping his forehead and he was just like shaking his head.…Just sitting there, sweating.” In her deposition, Sade testified, “Tito looked nervous, like he knew that something was going on that shouldn’t have been going on,” she said. “I know Tito knew her before this, so maybe his conscience was getting to him or something.…Why are you acting this funny about a bathroom?”
The girls started screaming again. “At this point I know she could hear us, if she was in the bathroom,” Kerston testified. “So she would have came down the stairs by now. We were yelling her name, we were yelling at him to bring her down, I mean she would’ve—she would’ve came downstairs by now.” Then, Brandon came running down the stairs swearing at them to leave his house. “He came past Tito and he was like in our, like close to our faces, yelling at us,” Kerston testified. “He was telling us to get out of his house, and we were like, ‘No, we’re not leaving without our friend,’ so we didn’t leave.” In a deposition taken two years later, Brandon testified that he couldn’t recall the specifics of the interaction.
According to the testimony of the three girls, Tito then changed his story. “He said, ‘Oh, she’s coming,’” Amanda said. “Well, first he told me she wasn’t up there. I knew he was lying.” Testified Sade, “They were acting way too nervous, and they really wanted to get us out, like they were very persistent about getting us out of there, and there’s no reason for that if everything is fine and my friend is just using the bathroom,” she said. “It doesn’t take that long to use the restroom.”
Finally, Hannah appeared at the top of the staircase. “She looked drunk, like her eyes were closed,” Amanda testified. “She couldn’t really walk. She was trying to hold her balance down the steps. She was walking slow.” The girls, Tito, and Brandon watched her descend the stairs. “She looked very unaware of what was going on. She just looked out of it,” Sade said. “She was fixing herself, but she wasn’t fixed when she got done, you know?…She looked like she didn’t know what she was doing.”
The girls took Hannah by the arms, helped her into her coat, and led her slumped figure out of the house. The girls testified that Hannah had consumed a limited amount of alcohol at the party, and they couldn’t figure out why she seemed so drunk. “I’m just like what’s wrong, like what’s wrong with you,” Sade testified. “She just sort of mumbled, ‘ah, ah, ah, ah.’” The girls got about half a block down the street, grilling her all the way, before Hannah managed to indicate that someone had touched her while she was upstairs. Then she threw up orange-red vomit all over the sidewalk. Sade kept her grip on Hannah; Kerston and Amanda headed back to the house and banged on the boys’ door. Brandon and Bilal were downstairs. “It was a yelling match,” Amanda testified. “Like ‘Where is—what happened to our friend, and what did you all do,’” she said. According to the girls’ testimony, the boys screamed at them to get away. The girls threatened to call the cops, and demanded to know who took Hannah upstairs. “Adam Joseph,” the boys told them, before slamming the door in their faces. The girls later discovered that the two remaining Bryant Street housemates were not at the party that night—one with the first name “Adam” and the other with the last name “Joseph.”
Down the street, Hannah vomited incessantly onto the sidewalk. “She was too out of it to know where she even was,” Sade said. “And she looked sad.” When Kerston and Sade returned, the girls verbalized their suspicions. “I think she’s been raped, Sade,” Kerston said. “We need to go to the hospital.…She might have been like—she might have been drugged.” The girls headed toward the hospital. Hannah threw up again. They stopped a Howard University student shuttle, hopped in, and instructed the driver to take them to the hospital. Hannah threw up while getting into the shuttle. Inside, “she was just leaning to the side,” testified Sade, “she was like awake but not really there.” They exited the shuttle. She threw up again. They entered the Howard University emergency room around 3:30 in the morning. Hannah threw up.
“We think she’s been raped,” Kerston and Sade informed an orderly as they dragged her into the hospital. Hospital officials handed Sade some paperwork to fill out on Hannah’s behalf. In the box indicating the reason for the ER visit, Sade testifies that she wrote, “raped, possibly drugged.” A nurse sat Hannah down and took her blood pressure. Hannah threw up on the floor. Kerston and Sade helped to clean it up off of the ground. The nurse put a vomit bag in Hannah’s hands. She was incoherent and barely conscious. She threw up into the bag. According to the girls’ testimony, when a doctor finally saw Hannah, she determined that she was too incoherent to consent to receive a rape kit, because she couldn’t verbally confirm that she had been raped. According to the girls, the doctor told them to take Hannah home, let her sleep it off, make sure she didn’t shower, and then return to Howard University Hospital for a rape kit the next day. When the girls begged the doctor to treat Hannah’s symptoms of sexual assault and drugging, the girls claim that the doctor told them to leave the ER. (The doctor testified that she informed Hannah’s friends that they would have to wait six to eight hours before Hannah was treated, and that the girls chose to leave the hospital without treatment). When Kerston and Sade took Hannah back to her dorm, she threw up again.
The D.C. SANE (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) program, which performs the exams at Washington Hospital Center, allowed us to document each component of a District rape kit in order to better understand the process.
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Our Readers Say
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Stacey
April 8, 2010
Wow. I cannot believe this - I mean, I can, but I have a hard time getting my head around the injustice of it. Thank you for writing this up - for pointing out everything that is wrong with the way in which rape is treated and for clarifying what it means when people say that rape victims are often discouraged from filing charges.
I hope Hannah will be okay in spite of all this.
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JRB
April 8, 2010
Tragic, infuriating story--and a great piece of reporting by Amanda Hess. Hopefully this will be read by some people in power, and something will be done to mend the ways of MPDC.
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Ginger
April 8, 2010
Thanks for writing this piece. This story exemplifies how all too often the systems that are supposed to help rape victims actually do them an injustice that can be harder to bear than the rape itself.
Back in 2007 when I was working for a local organization that advocates for crime victims, some obscure blog mentioned this incident. I wanted to make my colleagues around the region aware of what this woman had endured from the MPD and the hospital, but I could not find any official news story in WaPo and other local papers. Did I miss it? I even emailed an editor at WaPo recommending that they report on the story. Nothing (at least that I saw).
One way to try to prevent this kind of thing from happening again is to draw attention to incidents when they happen, which can generate the kind of public outrage than can lead to change. When WaPo does report on sexual violence, the articles tend to take a victim-blaming attitude. How are we going to bring about justice for rape survivors if the news media doesn't give [properly fact-checked] attention to these issues in the community--if the public doesn't know that victims are treated terribly in some cases? Thanks, Amanda, for fulfilling your journalistic duty where WaPo has fallen short for a long time.
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Erin
April 8, 2010
Great story Amanda even though it is so disheartening. Hannah is lucky she has such good friends and family.
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jules
April 8, 2010
I have a friend in my MSW program who did rape crisis work in DC. She got called to HU one night to counsel a distressed young woman. She arrived before the police, but when the cop got there, he proceeded to re-victimize the young woman, telling her she didn't really know what had happened and telling my friend "This girl is obviously making the story up." Its shocking and upsetting to here that my friend's story is not an isolate incident. I'm forwarding this story to her and hoping she comments her own experiences as well.
I'd like to add, I really respect and admire Hannah's friends for their support of her during all of this.
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Nancy
April 8, 2010
Thanks for reporting this. There are so many things horrifying here - that she was drugged and raped, and that Tito let it happen, knew it was happening, didn't know how to prevent it, didn't have the courage to do something... And then the police response is ghastly.
I admire her for absolutely doing the right thing by going to get checked in the hospital, going to police, ie."going through the procedure" that people are always telling victims they should do. Had she not people would have most certainly said she was making it all up, but look what happened when she did?
Her friends are a wonderful example of being allies, by not just leaving when Hannah disappeared from the party, but making sure they find her and continually looking after her well being.
Thanks for highlighting this story.
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Manor
April 8, 2010
As I said earlier, if when rape kits are collected they are not really analyzed, see this:
All DC citizens need to understand how lax and tolerant our city is in regards to crime. It is shameful and probably the number one reason huge areas of this city may never flourish: there is simply no security. Vote.
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ShakingMyHead
April 8, 2010
All I can say is Howard Hospital is one of the worse hospitals in the city. I would rather let a bum on the street treat me than to go there, with the rude nurses and cant speak english doctors. I am very sorry that this happened like that to this young lady. As for the way MPD handles anything dont call them for nothing except a murder thats the only way they will half half ass do their jobs, and the dudes that participated in the cover up, everytime I see one of them I would make sure anyone in the vicinity would hear me scream as loud as I could that he is a rapist.
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LeftSidePositive
April 8, 2010
So, what this police officer is saying is that, for any reason, you can't remember exactly what happens to you, you can't get justice?!??!
Great news, everybody!! It's open season on Alzheimer's patients and the retarded!!!!!
If, through your own fault or someone else's, you are mentally incapacitated, will no one protect your rights? I guess that rules out sleeping, too.
If you suddenly cannot remember what's happened to you, is it unreasonable to consider it likely that you may have been drugged? If you have been drugged, how exactly are you supposed to remember exactly how and by whom you've been drugged? Isn't that THE POINT of drugging someone?
Wasn't this girl being responsible when she said, I don't know what happened, I *may have* been raped? Isn't that precisely the type of conscientious behavior about NOT making false accusations. If you don't jump to conclusions, we don't think we have enough evidence to bother to COLLECT evidence. If you do jump to conclusions, you're an irresponsible slut who doesn't deserve to have evidence collected. WOW. That's one hell of a catch-22.
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Not Guilty
April 8, 2010
How about requiring every hospital to have staff trained in administering a rape kit and making it mandatory if a person comes in saying they have been raped/sexually assaulted. Let the courts decide if there was a rape. Defendants have a right to be innocent until proven guilty and victims have a right to be believed until proven to be a liar in court.
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DB
April 8, 2010
You should hear some of the ish! certain police (i work in NE) & even some EMTs say to people who've been assaulted.
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K
April 8, 2010
jfc1, if there is one emotion lacking from all the party bouncers, party hosts, nurses, doctors, detectives, captains, and hospital administrators in this story who obstructed any chance Hannah had at justice, it is sympathy. The stupid bitch was clearly lying, after all, because drunk college girls can't be trusted, and even if she was assaulted, she was drunk at a house party, what the hell did she expect?
Not a single person in a position to help her seemed to step back from their assumptions about her at any time throughout this story. Hannah's case was a problem they wanted to go away, not a potential crime victim in need of services and support.
Given the complete lack of help or support given to her thus far by the medical and legal systems, are you really asserting that the judiciary will suddenly open up like a flower for her? Did you actually read this story, or did you just skim the first page and decide if the DC cops didn't think she had a credible,you don't either? Cause, as we all know, DC cops have a untarnished record of reliability and honesty, right?
Somebody give me a knife, so I can spread my sarcasm an inch or two thicker.
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Anthony
April 8, 2010
I feel horrible for this girl, who was assaulted by one of the partygoers then terrorized AGAIN by the system set up to protect her. It's especially galling to have this happen to someone from my alma mater, and to have Howard University Hospital to be partly to blame for the harm done to her. I'm disgusted by this incident. The attitude towards the girl ranges from paternalistic and condescending to just plain outright offensive. I am ashamed for my school.
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Beth
April 8, 2010
Wow....wow.
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Maria
April 8, 2010
This story is important for people to report and to read. I hope that severals things come of it:
1. People pay more attention to themselves, their surrounding, and their friends - over 70% of rapes go unreported. Only 1 in 12 result in any kind of consequence for the rapist.
2. SANE programs should be available at every hospital. A victim of rape must be able to receive emergency medical care just as does any other victim of physical crime. Funding should not be a limiting factor when somebody's dignity, health, and life are on the line.
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Nikki
April 8, 2010
Wow, well done Amanda.
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Jenny
April 8, 2010
A couple of things stand out to me from this article.
1) DC Rape Crisis Center is to be commended for all their efforts to make progress for women in spite of obvious hostility from DC institutions.
2) People must just really, really hate and distrust women. There is honestly no other explanation for this.
3) This story makes me ashamed to be part of a society that would treat victims this way.
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Alexandra
April 8, 2010
The MPD are obviously too lazy to do their jobs. Par for the course in large cities. What else is new?
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rl
April 8, 2010
BUT WHAT CAN WE DO?!
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J
April 8, 2010
The article doesn't give much justice or thanks as well to the amazing Sexual Assault Nurse Examiners doing the work now since taking over in 2008...Thanks to them and all of the amazing work by the current Sexual Assault Response Team, nurses, and folks/agencies involved with the DCVsurvivors' array of follow up care.
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JGD
April 8, 2010
ps. in addition to my last post, I also felt that the article/paper could have also taken it a step further by responsibly providing readers with greater outreach and media awareness by highlighting related websites, hotlines or who to call in the event of a rape, crisis, or need for counseling or relatedservices...perhaps an addendum from the City Paper? thanks!
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Anonymous
April 8, 2010
I want to say that things have changed since Hannah's case. They really haven't. In late 2008, I was raped at a bar in northwest by a bus boy who followed me into the bathroom after I asked where it was located. I had gotten up to use the restroom because I felt like I was going to puke. He locked the door and held me against the wall. I was too drunk to stop him. I'd never met him before. It probably lasted about two minutes. When it was over, I was slowly becoming aware of the fact that something not good had happened. I pulled my tights up, grabbed my purse and stumbled out to a cab. Halfway home, I got out of the cab to throw up. The cab driver was annoyed and drove off. I hailed another one after I stopped vomiting. Because of the state I was in, I was too hungover and vomiting the entire next day, and thus did not process and address the situation for about 36 hours, at which time I went by myself to ask for a rape kit at the Washington Hospital Center (per the advice of the DCRCC hotline). I waited a very long time but they did in fact do the kit and the SANE nurse was incredibly kind and soothing. Unfortunately, that's pretty much were the positive intervention ends.
It took me about two months to decide whether or not to report. I knew that I did not want to do so unless I was prepared to see it through, should they find enough to prosecute. The detective who took my statement was antagonistic and accusatory, and made me feel like I was wasting her time. She then went on leave and another detective took over my case. Not that I was informed of that of course. I found out after many phone calls, wondering why I had not heard anything about the progress. When they finally returned my calls, they couldn't find my kit. Who loses a rape kit?! I called the SANE nurse directly, and tearfully pleaded to her that they couldn't find my case. She was furious, and called the detective personally to tell them where my kit was (which, it turns out, was exactly where it was supposed to be, had they bothered actually contacting her).
After they found it.....nothing. Lots of phone chasing, and on the rare occasions when I actually reached the detective, he was cold and kept telling me that they were working on it, and would get back to me. He said he finished the investigation and would be handing the materials over to the attorney's office. I kept nagging. A few weeks later, after no word, I called again. Again, he promised he was meeting the attorney that week. No word. I called again a few weeks later. Again, he said he was dropping my materials off that week. No word.
After several weeks, someone else got back to me to let me know that this detective was now on sick leave. Nobody knew what was going on with my case. They claimed my file was locked a drawer of his before he left. As if nobody could find a way to open it. I was told someone else would get back to me. Nobody did. I waited a few weeks and called again. I filed my original complaint in January. I was brought in for questioning at the beginning of March. Now it was mid-June. I called again, they said the detective was still out.
I kept calling. By mid-August, I'd had enough and asked to speak to the Lieutenant. This was ridiculous. When the Lieutenant called me back, and I explained that I was looking for information on my case, she said "Oh, well the detective is right next to me, did you want to talk to him?" He was back and did not bother to let me know where my case stood. He got on the line, and said "Oh, YOUR case? They declined to prosecute that." I was silent. And then I asked when that decision was made. He looked through his notes. They had closed the case in the middle of June. TWO MONTHS AGO. Nobody had called me. Not from the Sexual Assault Unit and not from the attorney's office. I broke down on the phone, he sounded irritated. I asked for the name of the attorney who had made that call. He said she was now on maternity leave. I pondered the irony of that fact that a woman had made this decision.
I feel for Hannah. It is quite apparent that to the DC police, a drunk girl is asking for it. If you are too drunk to say no, it is your own fault that you get taken advantage of. My female roommates, in fact, said this to me as well. In 2008, it boggles the mind that women can think this way.
Aside from the SANE nurse, not a single person I encountered was on the side of the victim. I felt like a nuisance, they clearly did not believe me, and nowhere in the entire episode was there any indication that the members of that unit cared about the outcome of my case. I would put every penny I have on the line to bet that they did not do a thorough investigation. Without the counseling I received from DCRCC, I truly don't know where, or if, I would be right now.
Hannah, I wish you the best and I hope you are able to get some sort of justice on behalf of what I fear are many girls, just like you, in the District.
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Anonymous
April 9, 2010
jfc1, while I formulate my response to your posting (rather than simply post the list of expletives that came to mind when reading it for the first time), may I ask why you are even posting a response to this? You seem awfully passionate for someone who just wrote an essay defending policemen for being completely apathetic. And you, unlike them, are not getting paid for it. Is this just for the fun of playing Devil's Advocate?
But I think I just answered this for myself: "...certainly I've been blind-drunk myself, more than a few times, and you put the two together with a pair of a hot girl and a horny guy and there can be some real trouble."
First off, how fortunate for you that you have a penis and therefore are completely unconcerned with how drunk you get and who may take advantage of it. In fact, in the matter of handing out consequences, you hold all the cards. So what you are inferring here is, you simply cannot help yourself as a drunk male, if a hot girl happens to be nearby and you suddenly get an erection. Given that, I suspect that if you WERE a girl, your behavior would be no different and you would in fact be "running around getting shit-drunk at some party or bar where some complete stranger might come up, capture me drag me off to some dark corner and stick his dick up in me and nut off and run away." Congratulations on your ticket to 'fun without consequences'. Must be nice.
Back to the rest of your response: Should I feel sympathy for the policemen because they have to hear soooo many of these cases, where girls "need 4 hours of their time, and they've got 20 people like you (me) to one degree or another, every night, night after night year after year?" IT'S YOUR JOB. And by the way, we pay for your position. If you have outgrown it, find a new one. Perhaps one that taxpayers are not funding. We are not their 'problem'. We are the bare bones (so to speak) of their job and have the right to "be harassing the police to see if they are acting on your (my) case". If I took that attitude at my own place of work, I'd be fired.
At the end of the day, being drunk is NOT an excuse to invade someone else's rights. It doesn't fly as an excuse when you are wasted behind the wheel of a car and it certainly doesn't fly when you invade someone's person without their consent. And for the record, the definition of rape in most states in the union is: "unlawful sexual activity and usu. sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usu. of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, INTOXICATION."
The question here is not whether or not a girl is foolish to be trashed and thus vulnerable at a bar or party. It is indeed foolish. But it is not consent. I have the right to stand outside a seedy bar in a bikini at 3am, and nobody has the right to touch me. Dumb of me? Absolutely. Does not change the violating nature of the act of rape. Bottom line is, being in public does not give someone else the right to violate you, no matter how foolish I may be acting. An employee of the bar, whom I asked to direct me to the bathroom, used that situation for his personal gain, aware that I was incapable of putting up a fight. The fact that I was so out of it that I couldn't "even stumble out of a bathroom and find a bartender or a bouncer and tell him that a busboy there locked you into a bathroom and raped you" is EXACTLY what makes it rape. And thus a crime. And thus worthy of the complete attention of the people whose salary we are providing for the sake of facilitating justice on our behalf.
Your response was 'dismissed' not because of the value of its content but because of its ignorance.
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Beth
April 9, 2010
That's it, if I don't get in to med school off the wait list, I'm going to nursing school and becoming a SANE. I would rather pay out of my own pocket for an unauthorized rape kit every now and again than live in a world where this shit goes down.
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ColT
April 9, 2010
I've been a crime victim in DC before, and this sounds like Standard Operating Procedure for the DC police. Fortunately, none of the crimes were as serious as rape. I've had a DC police officer tell me, "We don't take reports. We make arrests." So, he refused to take a report unless I could point out my attacker. How crazy, and lazy, is that? Another time, I had some personal items stolen while I was in a store on M St. After waiting for almost an hour for the police to arrive, I spotted a squad car on the next block. I had to pull the officer out of a strip club to take my report. Another time, my wife was a witness to a shooting on Sherman Ave. She identified the shooters and their car to 911. It took about 2 months for the police to interview her. How many people could identify a suspect after that long?
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Cindy Teller
April 9, 2010
While I was not personally involved in Hannah's case, I am extrememly familar with DC practices and protocols that evolved partially as a result of Hannah's case and the new VAWA act. I developed, trained the initial nurses and served as Director of the SANE program in 2008 - 2009 and can say without hesitation the law enforcement interactions with victims are extremely questionable and lacking. I dont even know where to begin with all the missed opportunities for evidence collection but more important is the lack of validation for a potential victim. As an ER nurse at Howard prior to starting the new program, I was shocked at how the District as a whole failed these patients. Hopefully, attention to thinks gone wrong and where our faults are, we can make things better for those that follow.
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gmg
April 9, 2010
The testimony of the bouncer, Tito, is so telling: “You’ve got your church girls and your street girls.” The old whore-madonna dichotomy again. This attitude is part of what enables rapists to prey on women. Men MUST be taught that women are not walking stereotypes.
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DC reader
April 9, 2010
Two observations here: 1/ Every time cops refuse to take a report, they make the city's crime statistics -- and themselves -- look better. They benefit professionally from their own deceit. It would be easy to mandate that the police take a report from every person who is or claims to be a victim of a crime. Authorities could still decide for whatever reason that the case isn't worth pursuing, but the report would be on the record. It might even help solve other crimes -- suppose, say, Tito's name or the address of this group house started showing up in other reports, or had already appeared in previous ones? 2/ This is the kind of detailed, well-reported story that used to appear in the Post. It says a lot that City Paper printed it while the Post touts (allegedly) declining crime rates.
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cindy Teller
April 9, 2010
Ms. Hess,
If I can be of any assistance on how things worked in the District while I was there, I would be happy to help. There were some wonderful changes accomplished but some negative events as well.
Cindy Teller
757-672-1665
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Avery
April 9, 2010
This sounds a lot like what happened to my sister when she attended a small college in Ohio. The police were totally unhelpful and dismissive. In fact, I've never heard of police conduct towards rape victims being anything but hostile. The detective me and my dad spoke to said she couldn't have been raped "because I know what real rape is; we had a 12 year old girl here last week... that was a real rape case... this is just a girl who feels guilty about having sex."
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Donna
April 9, 2010
So now What? Where's the lawsuits? Where is the justice?..please tell me this doesn't just end like this...
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anon
April 9, 2010
Lots of love for Hannah and admiration for her in staying strong and continuing to fight.
What gets me most about this story is that it doesn't seem the hospital tested her for date rape drugs when her friends brought her to the hospital saying they thought she had been drugged. If someone has been drugged and raped, the individual probably appears intoxicated and can't really remember what has happened. Both of those facts appear to have been used against Hannah in this case. That the hospital didn't (doesn't?) have a procedure in place to recognize and effectively respond to this scenario is absurd, and frightening.
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jedi
April 9, 2010
Thank you for writing this.
I'm just so angry. I can't really think of anything to comment. Anything, that is, but a bunch of really nasty swear words.
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Toni
April 9, 2010
DC police are notorious for not caring about females. I had a friend whose boyfriend slammed her head into the concrete and she tried to press charges. The police refused to take the report because, and this is what they said to her: "You called your friends here and for all we know they did it and you are framing him!" They constantly take their jobs like they are judge and jury as well. They recently came to my apartment and had my sister removed because an advice nurse for a HMO got mad at her for raising her voice and told them she was suicidal. They then took her to a PG hospital instead of CPAP so we could not get her released. I have more horror stories but I will say this: I would not be above putting this story into production so it reaches a wider audience - permissions would be required. Pass it on!
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Sarah
April 9, 2010
Thank you for writing this article.
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Amelia Allis
April 9, 2010
I feel so furious that the guy or guys who raped Hannah get off completely free - yet Hannah, her sister & her friends tried SO HARD to get justice.
I really wish I could trust police officers more. Perhaps I could trust police officers more if more of them were female. I live in New Zealand which has been labelled the 'least corrupt country' in the world (in a recent study), yet we have our fair share of corrupt police & police systems (eg. the Louise Nicholas case). There is no independent place to complain about police to - is someone has a complaint against an officer, they have to lay their complaint with another officer, who makes his own decision about whether to investigate more or not. There have been a number of situations where files against police officers have inexplicably 'gone missing' and evidence of their professional misconduct has simply 'been lost'.
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B
April 9, 2010
Thank you so much for writing this. Although it is a difficult (and for some, triggering) story to read, I can only hope that it reaches as wide an audience as possible, that people realize how frequently and easily justice is denied to sexual assault and rape victims, and that we need to do something about this NOW.
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Bill Diamond
April 9, 2010
That article is one of the most incoherent I've ever read. It's almost as incoherent as Hannah's statements. I'm not surprised that the police didn't do anything. She was completely hysterical. First, as a doctor I wouldn't think examining a patient who is continuously vomiting is required in the ER unless it's a life threatening emergency. She's lucky the police didn't send her to the drunk tank for the night.
I love how Hannah thinks she waited "... for God knows how long." Grow up Hannah. You're in a hospital. There are far more important things for the doctors and staff to be doing than attending do your little crisis. I'm glad the police saw through her B.S. She certainly sounds like she had a princess complex when dealing with the police.
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LeftSidePositive
April 9, 2010
Bill Diamond, you are a heartless human being and a disgrace to the medical profession (if indeed you are a physician!). How DARE you think that someone who has just been raped is just having a "little crisis"! How DARE you think that medical examination to conduct time-sensitive forensic evidence is just something that can wait. How DARE you think it is appropriate to make someone wait while in pain, starving, un-showered, and not allowed to have a bowel movement for HOURS! How DARE you think that a person who is hysterical (after having been, oh, I don't know, drugged and raped!!) doesn't deserve timely and compassionate medical care! How DARE you think that someone who needs authorization to get a medical exam is "acting like a princess" by wanting to get medical care and forensic evidence to FIND OUT WHAT WAS DONE TO HER BODY.
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Atheistchick
April 9, 2010
Bill Diamond, I hope to god you are not a doctor. I agree with LeftSidePositive. You are a sorry excuse for a person and a professional. You wouldn't think of treating a vomiting patient? You don't want to treat someone who is throwing up? Who has the princess complex here? If, as you say, you are a doctor, you are a terrible one who obviously cares nothing at all for the people who need your help. Telling someone who has been drugged and raped to grow up further retraumatizes the victim. And doctors and nurses are there for the benefit of all who need them, not just those you deem important enough. It is people like you and attitudes like yours that allow rape to continue unpunished and the physical effects of rape to go untreated. It's easy enough for me to visualize you as a rude, uncaring, woman-hater who is more than happy to blame rape victims for their own trauma so you don't have to do your job correctly. If you are a physician, quit now because you are not deserving of such a title.
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Mahri Irvine
April 10, 2010
Thanks for a great, albeit disturbing, article. This shows exactly the type of challenges that face sexual violence survivors when they try to report the crimes committed against them.
One thing I would like to point out is that, even though it may seem appalling to some people, there is a rationalization for not conducting a SANE exam on a survivor who is still intoxicated or drugged. If the doctors/nurses feel that the survivor is not coherent enough to consent to the exam, then doing the exam could potentially be an even further violation of the survivor, and the hospital staff do not want to carry out an exam on a patient who cannot give consent for it. So, while the Howard U staff may not have communicated this in a compassionate way, they probably were trying to respect the survivor by not conducting an exam she couldn't consent to. And because hanging out in a hospital ER waiting to de-tox is not a very pleasant thing to do, I do understand why they sent her home and told her to come back later.
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jerindc
April 10, 2010
amanda, great article on an ugly subject. obviously, being drugged and raped isn't bad enough....afterwards it is necessary to subject the victims to even more abuse. this needs to change....yesterday, not tomorrow. and the MPD should be held completely accountable.
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Derek
April 10, 2010
Bill Diamond, you are a pussy, and I will fight you.
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Emma
April 10, 2010
That is just utterly infuriating. That someone who has just been drugged and raped was failed so badly by the police and medical staff is outrageous, disappointing and terrifying. Tito's comments about 'church girls and street girls', and Bill Diamond's comments above pretty much capture the way in which our society thinks about women, particularly women who've been raped. Sentiments like that really scare me.
Hannah is so brave, and I hope she sees some justice. As well, her friends are to be commended for their support.
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buster rhymes
April 11, 2010
I know several people have commented on this already, but thank you so much for writing this. I don't even know how to respond to this except with shock and dismay. It is heartening to know that some things have improved - the rules surrounding the collection of rape kits, for example - but not only does it come too late for women like Hannah, but it sort of has the appearance of 'the least they could do' - like, hey look, we're doing something so stop complaining. How can we confront this attitude that places the responsibility for rape on the shoulders of the victim? Investigations like this definitely play a crucial role in this fight, so thank you again.
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Curran
April 11, 2010
The hospitals think they can get away with this kind of negligence because what are we pissed-off people going to do? Stop getting sick and run them out of business? Something creative has to be done to fix this and make the guilty parties involved be held accountable.
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Melissa
April 11, 2010
Bill "Doctor" Diamond, Defender of Justice.
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Anita
April 11, 2010
This article saddens and sickens, but it also educates the reader. You CANNOT stop here at being mad about the situation. You have to actively contribute to the solution. You write letters to the authorities, demanding justice...and you invite several tens of thousands of your community members to do the same. You get a license to assemble in front of the police station and the hospitals to get more of the media involved. Bottom line is the squeaky wheels get the oil.
So who's is ready to get the oil that Hannah and all of the other turned-away rape survivors need?...
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She deserved it
April 11, 2010
What did she think was going to happen after boozing it up? I'm sorry, but I've no sympathy for the lass. She was going to ruin a young man's life because she got tanked and didn't like the sex. Boo fucking hoo. Grow up.
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She deserved it
April 11, 2010
And while I'm on the topic, how dare you even deign to think you can destroy a young man's life over a sex act, which we don't even know took place. Take a look in the mirror, ladies. Mirror mirror on the wall, who is the most entitled princess of them all? A generation ago, a woman knew better; she didn't get shitfaced with the grrrlz and then complain because a high-status, socially dominant male didn't fuck her. Oh no, because she got loaded and realized a low status male fucked her, now she is thirsty for blood. Cry me a river. If you can't act ladylike, then fuck off, you will be treated like the tramp you are. If however, you behave like grrlz gone wild, I will be giving high-fives to the Bill Diamonds of the world for the valuable public service they perform. Now go home ladies, change out of the slut uniform you are wearing and put on something respectable. Maybe you won't get raped. Now fuck odd.
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She deserved it
April 11, 2010
*off*
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She deserved it
April 11, 2010
No, I'm a realist, and a generation ago a woman knew better than to dress up in a whore's uniform and get shitfaced at a party full of men. What changed was feminism's denial of reality and a shifting of the moral compass onto to men, who act on a woman's provocations. You know god-damned well a woman today on a weekend night looks and acts like a prostitute. (tramp stamp/tongue ring/stiletto heels) I've no sympathy for you or your ilk. You have it backwards, I am not a misogynist, you are a misandrist. A woman got fucked at a party. Big deal. She's going to be fucking for the rest of her life. It's a part of life. Moreover, how do we even know she got fucked? And you expect me to believe it is acceptable to ruin a man's life for this? To throw him in prison? You've got to be kidding me. Now, I might have sympathy if it were a woman of honor, say, a woman of 40 or 50 years ago. But today? Nah. I thought you didn't want the double standards? Don't you want the right to be sluts, like in Sex and the City? Well, you got it. You're sluts. And you will be treated as such. My thanks again to the good Doctor for triaging this entitled princess and moving onto more important patients.
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Phil
April 11, 2010
Back in my early clubbing days, we hung out in a pretty decent-sized group, male and female. The rule was: you all go out together, you stick together and make sure everyone gets home safe. Simple. It's dangerous out here, male and female. Even going to the bathroom by one's self in a strange place (private residence) or even a public place (nightclub restroom) can be a dodgy situation. It's not even worth drinking alcohol in a place where you don't know the people having the function.
My heart goes out to the subject of the article. Terrible thing to happen to someone, and a negative mark on area hospitals and the police department.
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chris
April 12, 2010
And I'll bet the ladies are just all over you what with your winning charm and candor.
Seriously, have you ever tried talking to a female? And I mean like, actually listening to what she is saying without interrupting her, calling her a whore or making references to the good ol' days?
It's kind of a bizarre concept, I know, respecting women, but I hear a lot of people are getting into it.
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chris
April 12, 2010
In reference to the actual article, I know tons of people have said it, but thanks for writing this, Amanda. I knew that it was difficult for sexual assault victims to be taken seriously, but reading exactly how and why really puts things into perspective. That shit's messed up.
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Eo
April 12, 2010
Widespread drink spiking to rape is feminist myth and hype. We had hysteria in this country about it, none of the toxicology reports showed up anything other than high levels of alcohol...and from a news paper in another country... "SUSPECTED victims of drink spiking are more likely to be suffering from drugs and alcohol they have willingly consumed, according to Australian research".
http://www.news.com.au/drink-spiking-all-in-your-head-study/story-0-1225735783315
I imagine that the emergency services roll their eyes when people that have been drinking beyond their ability and make a poor decision come through the door crying rape, the unfortunate thing is that when genuine victims, and "Hannah" might well be one of them, come through the door they can get tarred with the same brush. Whats more, if as is suggested by feminists every time a woman has sex while shes drunk its rape... there will never be enough "rape" kits or services to go round.
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She deserved it
April 12, 2010
No, you're wrong Chris. I am quite militant. I am an activist for the False Rape Society. Everytime a man gets locked up in prison for a crime he didn't commit, I must work that much harder. This is no laughing matter. This article is about a woman who wasn't even sure if she was raped. She thinks she was, but she doesn't know. The Doctor, who has important things to do, made the decision to turn this woman away. That is his prerogative. I don't blame him. Imagine if you will, a young woman coming into your clinic, drunk to the gills, stiletto heels, a pound of make-up, dressed like a prostitute, and expecting a rape kit. Too bad! Life is hard, deal with it! And you know what will happen? Nothing. Because nothing happened. And life will go on. Will this ruin her life? Puh-lease.
Now where is all the public outrage over what happened to this guy:
My advice to Hannah: Have a good cry and move the fuck on.
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Eo
April 12, 2010
@ She deserved it.
You arent doing your cause any favours with that attitude, I wonder if False Rape Society is happy about you representing them like that..
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Eo
April 12, 2010
To the sexist and all the contributors here.
Note how the girls in the story cried spiking and drugs... they have been taught this through feminist rape propaganda and hysteria. Again from the article about the Australian study...
"Of 100 suspected drink-spiking cases reviewed in a West Australian study, none were found to involve being slipped a sedative or illicit drug.
What emerged instead was a concerning picture of excess alcohol and illegal drug use by people - usually young women - at the centre of these drink-spiking claims.
"The public's perception that it's a guy putting a sedative drug into a woman's drink, at a pub or a club, we just didn't find that at all," Dr Mark Little, a clinical toxicologist at the Royal Perth Hospital, said.
"As a community, we have a bigger problem with illicit drug use and alcohol binge drinking than we do with drink spiking.""
If feminism taught young women to use common sense and about personal responsibility instead of teaching them to avoiding personal resonsibility and to blame others for outcomes generated by their own decisions (see wage gap). We wouldnt see all these women jumping to the conclusion that they have been spiked when they have in reality administered their own intoxicants, but feminism doesnt want safe women, feminism and professional feminists like the author of this blog want victims, to use as political capital.
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chris
April 12, 2010
And your militantness just makes you that much more charming, I assure you.
Yeah, she wasn't sure if she was raped or not, isn't that the whole point of a rape kit, to make sure? You don't even think it's worth it to bother finding out? Would you feel the same way if this was your mom, your sister, your girlfriend, a girl you actually know?
And for the record, I don't think anybody deserves to be raped, especially not based on the height of their shoes or the weight of their makeup (Is there a scale they keep in the doctor's office to determine whether one's makeup is too heavy to test now?).
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She deserved it
April 12, 2010
If she is shitfaced and wearing a slut uniform (tramp stamp/tongue ring/nipple piercing/one pound of make-up/stiletto heels) then whatever happens to her is her responsibility. Tough titties. That's the way it was for a thousand years, and that's the way it always will be. Good job to all (hospital, university, police) for dismissing this entitled princess and sending her home.
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Erin
April 12, 2010
number 63. You'll be talking a very different tune when you have a daughter. Go help you.
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Brennan
April 12, 2010
Thank you, Amanda, for this disturbing article.
Out of curiosity, is it possible to track commenters on these boards? Because, if, God forbid, "Bill Diamond" is an actual MD, I'd like to figure out where he practices and send a copy of his comments to his supervisor and each and every one of his patients.
As for the rest of the trolls who've been getting their rocks off by revictimizing this young woman, those pathetic wastes of space are just lucky I can't actually punch people through the internet.
Any chance of getting them banned or deleted?
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chris
April 12, 2010
Yes, that is precisely what the metalsmiths decided when they invented the nipple piercing in 1910, in fact. I notice that the article never really pointed out what Hannah was wearing, by the way. She could've been in a nun's frock for all we know. And you haven't answered any of my questions, either.
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Justaguy
April 12, 2010
A response to some of the mindless Neanderthals: The issue is that the woman asked police and doctors for help and didn't get it. We don't know what happened at the group house. It's entirely possible that a prosecutor might have decided not to charge anyone in a "he said, she said" case. It's even possible that Tito etc. might have told police that she was partying with happy abandon. It's entirely possible that a blood test would have revealed too much alcohol and no illegal drugs. It's entirely possible that a rape kit would not have retrieved any useful evidence. The point is that the authorities didn't conduct a proper investigation, so nobody will know for sure who did what, and IF this guy drugged and raped a woman he's free to do it again. Take sex out of this picture. Suppose your friends carried you to a hospital and said you were struck by a car and your head hurt. If the cops said you were drinking and therefore couldn't know what happened to you, or that you were walking in the street and deserved it, would that be satisfactory? If the doctors told you to go home and take aspirin, would that be good enough? This woman's friends thought that something was so wrong with her that they took her to a hospital. That's reason enough for the authorities to take the matter seriously.
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Thomas MacAulay Millar
April 12, 2010
What is clear from this thread and others is that there is a very real pro-rape lobby. They talk the language of disbelieving, but when push comes to shove (like 63 above), these trolls really do understand that women get raped when they are most vulnerable -- but they are in favor of it. Whether they are actually men who hate women, or are women who hate other women, we can't know. There are a number of possible motives for these sentiments. But they're not really in denail -- that's a facade they drop when pressed. In fact, they're just pro-rape. They think it ought to be open-season for predators on certain women in certain circumstances.
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She deserved it
April 12, 2010
Alright you chickenshits. Since we are swimming in a culture of misandry and no one can see it because it as ubiquitous as the air we breathe, how do you justify shifting the moral compass onto men over the past half century? I will tell you why: because you believe deep down, that all men are rapists. That's why. Men have been so programmed and engineered to believe this that they grow up soaking in self-hate. Time was when a woman who got hammered at a party with the grrls knew there was potential danger in doing so. So she didn't. End of. Well, when you mix young men and women together and throw in some booze this happens. Only now, we are so thirsty for male blood we are willing to destroy lives over a little sex. Was she brutally sodomized? No. She may (or may not) have had sex. End of. So, knowing that, she wishes to have some poor bastard hanged because of it. I already provided the link to poor William McCaffrey, who spent four years in the joint for being falsely accused or rape. Pretty funny, huh! I'm laughing real hard! We are war, gentleman. If you wish to continue playing the white knight, go right ahead. Just remember, a woman will not hesitate to destroy you if she can. Here is the link again:
And fuck you Brennan, whomever you are. You want to fuck around? Anytime motherfucker. I'd love to stomp your guts out. You're fucking right I'm fighting back. I'm fighting for some balance in this misandric politically correct cesspool. No man should ever go to prison because some drunk-ass slut didn't like the sex she got. Deal with it. I don't care how unpopular, sluts like this need to learn the hard way. Back to the old days, I say. You wanna fuck around? You wanna play? You wanna get drunk and tease the boys? You pays your money you takes your chances.
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K
April 12, 2010
"Was she brutally sodomized? No."
SDI, do you comprehend the meaning of the word "rectum"? What kind of sex, exactly, are you aware of that causes "rectal pain", that doesn't fit the traditional definition of "somdomy"?
And at no time in this three-page story did Hannah express a desire to see any man hung; she sought proper medical care and a thorough investigation and was denied both. She is now seeking a change in the way the city investigates rape claims so that a future woman or man in her position will receive the care and consideration she did not.
Finally, you may despise & judge women who don't dress as you think they ought, you may disdain & discount women who don't comport themselves in a manner you consider "ladylike", but wearing stiletto heels *is not* against the law. Drinking liquor over the age of 21 *is not* illegal. Being in a house occupied by men you do not know well *is not* illegal. What *is* illegal is dragging an incapacitated woman upstairs and assaulting her.
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She deserved it
April 12, 2010
Alright K, let me ask you something. Suppose I was at a party and was drinking excessively, and my clothing and attire were designed to sexually arouse and stimulate. (What that is for males I don't know, but for the sake of argument) Let's say I wound up getting beat up, but I was so drunk I don't remember how or why. How actively should I pursue vengeance?
The fact is we live in an uncertain world. Women do get over rape. They are not traumatized for life. Life goes on. Molestation of young boys or girls is a hideous crime, as is molestation of the elderly or anyone in a position of weakness. But a young woman who actively pursues venues of maximum titillation is asking too much of me. Nothing she did was illegal, but was it good behavior? I'm sick and tired of nailing men to the wall for this shit. It's high time women starting taking responsibility. She doesn't know who attacked her, she doesn't have a name, she was so drunk she knows nothing. Throwing a guy behind bars for something that may or may not have happened is evil. Pure evil.
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Adrienne
April 12, 2010
I had a similar experience. I'm posting this and then not returning to look at comments after me because I don't want to deal again with people rejecting my experience. I think it would be too traumatic. But I also want other people with similar experiences to know that this happens to other people too. And to get my voice out.
Something happened to me at a large party almost a year ago... I was and still am completely unsure of what exactly happened as I have no memory of about six hours or so, but some sort of sexual something occurred. I had been drinking; if the drinking caused the huge memory loss then I still think that consent was seriously doubtful. It was a pool party in Texas heat and what usually would have been a normal amount of alcohol could have hit my much stronger due to dehydration and just heat in general. If I was so drunk that I don't remember any of it- hours of it- then- I have a hard time imagining that I looked like someone who could reasonably and coherently consent to sex. I still struggle with calling this experience rape. Maybe it was another drug person and there was no consent for either party. Maybe who was with me had no idea that I was so impaired. I don't know what happened. I don't. But after coming to... after trying to piece together what had happened. After talking to as many people as I could, going over it again and again... I decided that whatever it was, it wasn't right.
I went to the local sheriff in the small town of Texas where I was, and was told that since I couldn't even state for sure that rape had occurred, because I couldn't give any details do to memory lost, because date rape drugs disappear from the system quickly, that I shouldn't go in for a rape test and if I did, they would not, would NOT look into the test or anything else. I was also told that I shouldn't have been at the party in the first place.
I was confused before reporting. And I talked myself into reporting it because I felt that what had happened was wrong, and I had a personal AND social obligation to report that something had happened. Instead of getting my voice out there, having someone at least acknowledge my confusion, acknowledge that something had happened, I got assaulted. The sheriff took no notes. He took no information. He wagged his finger at me and shamed me. I have had an easier time adjusting and dealing with the situations of the memory loss/sexual assault than I have had dealing with the treatment I received when trying to ethically and socially respond to the whatever happened that day. I'm angry. I'm belittled. I'm objectified. I'm blamed.
And now I'm guilty. Guilty that I didn't confront the sheriff's office and the horrifying situation. And guilty because I'm sure it's happened again. That some other woman has felt assaulted by the "justice" system. I didn't expect results. I didn't expect an answer. But I did expect someone to listen. And I didn't expect to be assaulted again.
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Professor Tom
April 12, 2010
Thank you for the bold investigative reporting.
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Nic
April 13, 2010
In response to "She deserved it",
The pure evil you speak of is absolutely nothing in comparison to the idea of injustice expressed above by those who so rightly say that, whether someone raped her or not, Hannah should have been treated fairly by the police department. And the pure evil that you speak of so rarely happens because, get this, when women are raped they rarely seek justice for fear of the kind of moral reprimand you bandy about so freely and even if they do, less than 10% actually result in any kind of conviction. Lastly, it sounds to me like you are saying that women who dress 'provocatively' and drink in public actually give up their human right to bodily autonomy. Oh dear, how misguided.
Lastly, please stop referring to the women of yesteryear as women with superior morals or values, they were, just as we are, guided into wearing their matronly attire by societal expectations. A reflection of their need to conform more than any kind of indicator of moral fiber.
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helene
April 13, 2010
@ She deserved it who says "Nothing she did was illegal, but was it good behavior?" Whether or not it was "good behavior" is beside the point - rape on the other hand, is ILLEGAL and no matter how much you think her behavior justified a rape, dressing provocatively does NOT equal consent, plain and simple. The fact that you remove all responsibility from men in cases where women are wearing so-called "slut uniforms" is sickening and it sounds like you suggest that some men are unable to control themselves from acts of violence and sexual assault (if this is the case, then they really should be locked up). Who are you to determine the gravity of rape and decide that women can simply get over it? I don't think you get that it's not just about sex - rape is in part about losing control over one's own body and NOBODY has the right to violate someone like that, no matter the circumstances. Lastly, in response to you defending the guy you're so worried Hannah's trying to blame, the article clearly states that she's not trying to get someone thrown in jail; as Nic said, all she was asking for was a fair examination and the respect she deserves (and she does deserve respect, no matter how much you may claim otherwise).
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Nina
April 13, 2010
Don't feed the troll, people. Just trying to get everyone attention with their misogynistic shit. Not worth anyone's energy.
Let's focus on the article and the shit that's going on.
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Curran
April 13, 2010
There was no direct accusations or 100% clear indication of rape but there was certainly enough evidence to incite an investigation. What we have is a woman with evidence that she was victimized in a horrible crime and though it wasn't conclusive, there was certainly enough evidence suggesting there was that the doctors and cops involved had a moral and proffesional obligation to see if there was. When a man gets falsely accused of rape, it really is unfortunate but that that is absolutely no excuse to ignore the possibility of a serious crime.
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She deserved it
April 13, 2010
Tell me the difference between this case and William MacCaffrey's. MacCaffrey did four years for a crime he didn't commit. When nobody responds, I'll know no one really cares.
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Eo
April 13, 2010
@ "She deserved it".
You are discrediting victims of false rape charges in the same way that feminists discredit genuine rape victims, in other words you are part of the problem, whats more you are feeding their rape culture strawman. You should stop posting here, or find auseful way to advocate. Im suprised False Rape Society hasnt been on here to disown you yet.
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glasslamb
April 13, 2010
I don't know why we even pretend rape is a crime. It's so god damned obvious that as long as every last drop of social power rests in the laps of men, the bodies of women will be treated, publicly, as nothing but vessels for men. It's a joke to think there's any hope for justice, to think that men in general, as a group, even care.
The police did nothing because they didn't have to, because women still aren't human. Rape isn't a crime, because men are taught from the moment they're born that our bodies belong to them. Otherwise, a drugged human being with an aching rectum and no memory of anything would seem to indicate oh, I don't know, that maybe that human being was drugged and violently, forcibly violated.
And, oh, I know. It's totally misandry to expect men to not stick their penises into OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES without explicit consent. Totally misandry for women to want to be treated as humans even though, god forbid, we were born with ovaries. For reals. The only reason men deny the truth of shit like this is so they may continue to commit rape as often as they please.
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Raina LaFountaine
April 13, 2010
She deserved it?? Im very sorry for whatever has happened in to you to make you so very clearly filled w/ derision and malice for the gender that gave you life.. There are laws against false reporting too... DNA DON"T LIE... Where is youre idignation at the behavior of a human being taking what they want , no matter the cost to the victim, ~YES VICTIM~, or themselves; or the world at large? by changing someone forever , their trust, their perceptions, their validity, their future (and everyone they come into contact with, everyone they know)... Life is a pond... the ripples you make effect Everything ,, Everyone...
If the effect you wanted was for a total stranger to find your general comments very specific , very directed, very offensive ; and the most important here ::: To realize that prevaling attitudes like YOURS are the problem....YOU SUCCEEDED YAY! Now that you have your ego boost , I hope your attitude is changed by one of two things : 1.someone who loves you , who shows you that Women are not objects, but human just as yourself.OR..2. Someone that decides you need a lesson....and objectifies you in a manner fitting to your limited view... Maybe someone already did (which would explain alot) ...In which case I understand your anger , and please get help, for you no one else... In the meantime perhaps you should explore your internal processes and figure out what it is about you that needs to throw venom??? You're throwing away your strength.. You're woefully miseducated.. I hope you find clarity and balance... For everyone else in this pond as well as yourself............
From someone who cried and got over it .
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Michele
April 13, 2010
How can anyone say she deserved it? I was raped sober, in jeans and a sweatshirt, after attending an Anonymous 4 concert. I was told it couldn't have been rape because I didn't know the stranger who grabbed me by my car and that I was wearing jeans. They were carpenter jeans, wide and unclinging, but when I mentioned this the officer went, "Oh? So your pants were loooooose." This is a way of magical thinking, that everyday men and women aren't capable of a crime as heinous as rape, that you will be proctected if you subscribe to a laundry list of Do Nots: don't drink, don't do anything alone, don't trust men, don't wear skirts, don't be pretty, etc. I was beaten and the police kept asking if I'd gotten drunk and fallen down. I was 17, I wasn't drinking.
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Herlihy
April 13, 2010
I would worry about false accusations if more than a single digit percentage of rapes actually saw prosection...
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firetyger
April 13, 2010
Thank you for writing this piece, Amanda. We do a disservice to victims when we stay silent.
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Brennan
April 13, 2010
@ Michele and Adrienne,
Thank you for sharing your stories. I can't imagine the strength that took.
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L Dubs
April 13, 2010
Email this story to the DC Chief of Police, Cathy Lanier. cathy.lanier@dc.gov
Tell her your outraged and she needs to get her (mostly male) staff to do a much better job of handling violent crimes like rape. Let her know this is some REALLY bad press, so if she's not interested in putting them through some sort of rape training class then this kind of publicity will continue.
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Rachel Lee
April 13, 2010
Stop telling women (and men) how not to get raped. Teach men (and women) not to rape, that's the only true prevention. For all your blame, She Deserved It, you seem to assume rape is a modern construct - we didn't prosecute rape in the 50's because a wedding ring was considered consent, you needed at least two eyewitnesses, and it wasn't rape unless it was a dirty black man assaulting a pure white woman, etc. Men don't have an automatic entitlement to sex. Though both gendered parties need to exercise caution and accountability, someone's lack of self control and criminal activities are NOT excused because someone else let their guard down to enjoy themselves. One of my housemates was drugged at a bar when we celebrated another lab tech's birthday. We had the connections to get her tested afterwards even if nothing happened because we took her home when she looked really out of it without drinking very much. So yeah, it happens. Just because it might not happen as often doesn't invalidate the cases where it has. We used to play a game at bars where we'd drop Mentos in drinks when their backs were turned and shriek, That could have been a roofie!
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Violet
April 13, 2010
If we are going to talk about personal responsibility, then that works both ways. If you believe that women have a responsibility to keep themselves from drinking too much and dressing provocatively and putting themselves in "dangerous" situations, then why do you not ascribe to men equal responsibility? If a woman is "asking" to be raped by dressing and acting in a certain way, then is a man not "asking" to be jailed by going to a party, drinking too much, and then putting his penis in an intoxicated woman? If we go by "she deserved it's" standard of personal responsibility, then a man who goes to a party, chooses to get drunk and act in a sexually promiscuous manner ALSO deserves the consequences of that behavior. If he didn't want to be arrested for raping someone, he shouldn't have drunk so much and shouldn't have had sex at all! In fact this lack of empathy leads to injustice for everyone.
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She deserved it
April 13, 2010
Tell me the difference between this case and William MacCaffrey's. MacCaffrey did four years for a crime he didn't commit. When nobody responds, I'll know no one really cares.
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Justaguy
April 13, 2010
A response to "She deserved it": For starters, you should know that the woman who pressed false charges has been sentenced to three years in prison:
The New York case is exactly like the case described here in this sense: The authorities failed to conduct a proper investigation, and as a consequence somebody got hurt. The City Paper story likely wouldn't even have been written if the authorities had taken a report, interviewed witnesses and processed blood tests and a rape kit. Then they might reasonably have concluded that there was no basis for prosecution. But that's not what happened. Nobody wants to railroad anybody. What we want from police and doctors is that they take a complaint seriously and look at the evidence.
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Voodoo2
April 13, 2010
Regarding responsibility, anytime one entertains guests in their home it is the host's responsibility to provide for their safety. If you can't monitor your guests behavior, don't entertain. And, if you do have an intoxicated guest at your party then it is your responsibility to protect them, rather than exploit their vulnerability.
The hosts of this party are guilty of irresponsibly dealing with an intoxicated guest (or worse) and as such place themselves at risk for all sorts of accusations, even false ones.
Arguably, anytime an individual imbibes they increase their own risk of injury as well. But, I'd bet there are more instances of male predatory behavior than vindictive female accusation.
As an RN in a trauma center I can say that anytime someone appears intoxicated and is vomiting is at risk for compromising their airway and they are classified as Urgent or Emergent depending on their level of consciousness. Remembering recent events is key to assessing level of consciousness. The fact that this woman couldn't remember what happened is a red flag.
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She deserved it
April 13, 2010
Your opinion of responsibility is just that, an opinion. But thanks anyway.
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Voodoo2
April 13, 2010
I am guessing you are a priest.
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dreams
April 15, 2010
are you trying to say if a woman/girl gets drunk then she deserves to be raped or if a girl dresses to make herself feel good she deserves to be raped I think it is you that has the problem. For her to be in the pain she was in it is pretty obvious she had sex against her will, and as for getting over rape thats bull shit you learn to live with it but it ruins future relationships unless you have an understanding partner & you always have the nightmares I am claustraphobic because of what happened to me at 15 are you trying to say I asked for it im now 40 with 2 lovely kids yes life goes on but I still have to sleep at night MR SHE DESERVED IT WHY DONT YOU TRY MY DREAMS and thousands of other peoples dreams that have been raped then tell us we deserved it.Its people like you that stop woman and expecialy men reporting rape cos who is going to belive them.???
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Zack
April 15, 2010
Her friends telling her she might have been raped is the only evidence a rape even occurred. This whole situation is f***** up, but no one reading this knows what happened. It is entirely possible she did not even have sex. It is possible she consented(I'm assuming the guy was also heavily intoxicated, to the level that he couldn't tell how drunk she was.) No one knows.
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Solange
April 16, 2010
No, Zack, the evidence is extreme disorientation without a corresponding intake of alcohol and pain in her rectum. I agree nobody knows, but don't you think that's further reason for an investigation initially? She wasn't hounding police stations around town to crucify some poor male, she went to hospitals wanting a rape kit to prevent pregnancy, test for STD's, and collect physical evidence. Better for the police to take her claims seriously. Rape is notoriously underreported and rarely results in conviction because people always think like you, that the guy didn't know what he was doing and she was probably to drunk to remember consenting. Another rarity? False allegations.
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Solange
April 16, 2010
Can I also be crass enough to say the vast majority of women would not have drunken, one night stand ANAL SEX? Unlike men, women don't have anything like a prostate to be stimulate within the rectum, and I can't imagine a conscious woman putting up with the act unlubricated. If she'd gotten through, the hospital could check for bruising and tears to truly distinguish between consent and force.
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Pamo
April 16, 2010
"(I'm assuming the guy was also heavily intoxicated, to the level that he couldn't tell how drunk she was.)"
Let's see, we have an array of testimony from her friends that set up really shady circumstances, plus Hannah's severe vomiting and physical pain, but apparently it's crazy to think she was assaulted.
But assuming the guy was too drunk to know what he was doing, that's a-ok. Got it!
Not to mention she couldn't consent if she was so intoxicated/drugged that she couldn't remember a damn thing.
Meanwhile, the whole point of this article is that a rape kit would have shed some light on the events of the night, but it was wrongly refused to her .
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Hannelore
April 19, 2010
@Pamo -- EXACTLY! Why so much hostility against an INVESTIGATION? Don't castigate Hannah for lying until the evidence has spoken! Those police officers did not do their jobs and should be suspended from the force pending their own investigation.
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Alex DiBranco
April 21, 2010
Change.org has a petition to the D.C. police department telling them to stop denying rape kits to victims: http://womensrights.change.org/petitions/view/tell_dc_to_stop_denying_rape_kits_to_victims
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amanda
April 29, 2010
thanks to those who posted supported, educated and non-misogynistic comments!
it is important to know that this is not an isolated incidence. this happens all around the country, to men and women of all ages and backgrounds. we must all take individual action to SPEAK OUT against sexual assault and against people such as 'she deserved it'. it is only through education and ACTION that we can truly prevent this from happening to one less person (and not through individuals protecting themselves from the masses, but from communities collectively protecting individuals).
talk to a friend, a relative, a local representative, anyone! sexual assault is unacceptable, let it be known!
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anon
May 7, 2010
amanda is there a way i can get in contact with you? i was also assaulted by bilal curtis
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Anonymous
May 7, 2010
This is a sad story and truly unfortunate however- i do feel as though it's completely wrong and a defamation of character to put the real names of people on here (ie Bilal) while the subject remains nameless. He hasn't been charged or found guilty of rape, yet you all are throwing around this young man's name and tarnishing his image. "Hannah's" story is unfortunately all too common on college campuses but to use the real names of unconvicted parties is inappropriate and uncalled for.
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"Anonymous"
May 9, 2010
Forgive us for being insensitive to rapists. I see no problem taking justice into one's own hands, if that ends up being the media, when the system fails as it does all too often for rape victims.
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r
May 9, 2010
Hannah,
Seeing as i have no way of contacting you, I'm writing you here. You are an extremely strong individual. I don't care what anyone says, and you shouldn't listen to them. Our entire culture is based around blaming the victim, and I'm sorry. No one should ever belittle or intimidate you for attempting to report a crime, especially one so very personal. You have wonderful friends to care about and for you that much, you guys did everything right. This situation is fucked up beyond belief, but I want to thank you. Thank you for pursuing this, and fighting this system that handled you so brutally. Thank you for all of the women that needed help and didnt get it, and for bringing awareness to people that this stuff really happens, that their sisters, mothers, and girlfriends could be treated like this. Thank you for standing for countless women who have been unable to. Thank you for being so very strong. Thank you.
I wish you the best of luck, and hope that everyone is brought to justice with a stronger understanding of how terribly this situation was handled. Don't let them intimidate you, call you names, belittle you, or blame you! It's not your fault, its never the survivors fault. Don't forget who you are. I hope you can find it in yourself to forgive and continue on.
And I sincerely hope that you ignore all of the misled, misogynous, hateful, and ignorant comments above mine. You have thicker skin than that. Please don't let them get you down. Thousands of women have fought your fight, you have backup, you are not alone. It will take time, but water drips through stone.
Stay strong, sister!
Love and Solidarity,
r
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Amanda Hess
May 10, 2010
I can be reached at ahess@washingtoncitypaper.com.
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cbear
May 19, 2010
My daughter was drugged and raped 2 months ago. We called the police and reported the rape. They sent us to a hospital where the had the special nurse, etc. That was not the problem, our problem is the detective, he didn't believe her, he believed the two guys. To this date he has not even interviewed her or any of her witnesses. He is her judge and jury. It doesn't matter that she had hand print burises on her arms and legs. He never called her in to see for himself. He has made comments like you are not a victim, this is a misc case not a rape case because the guys came forward and said you consented. Yet there is vidio of how drunk or drugged she was. They haven't even gotten the toxicology report yet. I even dooubt they even will. There is no justice for rape victims. Its a sad world we live in.
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Adam Snelson
May 25, 2010
There Are Some Fucked Up People In The World Im Therteen And To Of My Friends Have Opened Up To Me About Them Being Raped!!! Ther Were Both 9 At The Time I Would Like To Give People Backup And Someone to Talk To Email Me At AdamSnelson@hotmail.co.uk Or adamgee00@hotmail.co.uk Im Also ON Facebook Adam gee and adam snelson BTW Goodluck Hannah I hope they find the wretched person that did this.
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Adam Snelson
May 25, 2010
I Would Like To Speak With You Amanda To GET advise on how to help my freinds thre emotionally hurt
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Sometime Thereafter
June 20, 2010
Thank you for your kindness and empathy, Adam. The best thing you can do for your friends who have been sexually assaulted is to listen, show appropriate anger (do not make venegeful proclamations), and not judge. In my experience a lot of the people who tried to help - I was able to take my rapist to court, so everyone in my life pretty much found out - were more upset than I was and sometimes made me feel worse going on about how he took something from me, it was the worst thing that could ever happen to a young woman, that I needed protection in the form of male friends, that sexual violence ruins lives forever, etc. Yes, I was raped and moderately injured, but I'm not going to let it derail my world. I am stronger than someone weak enough to commit this crime. Don't patronize your friends, but be strong for them if they need you to be.
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The man
July 2, 2010
To all of you who sit smugly at your computers in the safety of shelter, criticizing the victim of a brutal attacker who not only physically abused someone but caused likely lifelong emotional and psychological harm, congratulations on your contribution to society. Do you feel great? Put yourself in her place. It's your right to go to a party, right? It's your right to have a drink or two, right? Please tell me where it is written in law that exercising these rights simultaneously forfeits your right to remain without physical harm? Whatever sense of peace, compassion and individual justice you think you believe in amounts to dog sh*t if you believe this young student deserved physical harm in any way shape or form. To all the guys finding fault in the girl, wait till you have a daughter and realign your attitude. Put it this way. If a young man goes to a party and gets drunk is it his fault if he gets drugged, shoved in a room physically abused and anally raped? Reevaluate your sexism guys, you're a disgrace to men.
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Jenny Han
July 6, 2010
Really good point, "the man". If a guy cannot restrain himself from committing crimes while intoxicated, does he have a right to drink free of consequence?
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Zara Heydon
July 21, 2010
ok, So I am but a simple child and probably most of you will not even bother to read to the end of this post but I feel I should have a say in this.
Firstly; I am currently in a situation dealing with a 20 year old male who raped (in the space of one and a half years) four girls under the age of 15 and possible three others and sexually abused a young boy. I am in Holland and I am currently trying to convince one of the girls to go to the police, if you have any advice it would be helpful.
Secondly, What happened to the victim of this report is tragic and the police are clearly at fault, if the woman was making it up surely it would be easier to give her a rape kit and when it came up clean then she could be presented with the evidence (not that I'm saying thats the case) I just do not see why they could not provide a rape kit...if she's lying the police would have the truth and if she wasn't they would have the evidence. I see this as gross neglect of duty and human rights, she was not sure if it had happened and giving her the Rape kit would have atleast managed to verify her claims and put her mind at rest.
Thirdly, to all the people out there who think that "she deserved it" or a variation on that theme, how would you feel if that happened to you? be you a female or a male? would you like someone doing such a think to you?
On another point, many people are saying that if you get drunk and dress like a slut you deserve it....firstly, yes, I have to agree...women have a tendency to dress slightly more provocatively then I myself would, on the other-hand that is completely up to them and just because they are showing a bit too much skin does not give anyone a right to touch them in anyway without consent. Guys, if you want to be so sanctimonious about women getting drunk and then calling rape because they didn't like the sex or felt guilty or wanted the morning after pill (and yes, I have come across these situations as well)then it is surely up to you as the stronger and more dominant sex (apparently) to not take advantage of us feeble females....or something to that tune....basically, you should be able to keep your dick in your pants when it becomes apparent that the girl is completely off her rocker.
Guys, Imagine getting drunk and waking up the next morning without a memory of the night before and a pain in your ars....I'm pretty certain you wouldn't just say "I guess I deserved it" and roll over and go back to sleep.
I am very shocked and disgraced with human life if this is the reaction that most people have to another persons suffering.
(Please excuse me for my bad grammer, I am only 17)
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Alicia
July 23, 2010
Wow, "she deserved it", you really have bought into blaming the victim, blaming feminism, and the virgin/whore complex. Women are not either Madonnas or prostitutes. And let me tell you a little something... women who get drunk at parties most certainly do NOT ask for it! There are plenty of women who have been drunk at parties and have not been raped. The difference is not in women's behavior- the difference is in the presence of a rapist. Rape apologists ALWAYS use the excuse that if women were not dressed a certain way, or not intoxicated, or not acting a certain way, then they wouldn't have been raped. This is so heinously false! If someone had not raped them, then they would not have been raped. Sounds self-explanatory, but (as evident by some of the comments on this article) there are some idiots who really don't get it. And when you say that men "just can't help themselves" when women dress provocatively, it does a disservice to all of the honorable men who would never commit such heinous acts- they are all demoted to sex-crazed automatons. Men most certainly CAN control themselves around women- some simply choose not to.
NO woman deserves the trauma of rape. No woman ever asks for it. People like you focus on woman getting drunk and getting raped, when in fact he should be focusing on the fact that men are getting drunk and doing the raping. Women don't rape themselves, you Neanderthal.
I take particular issue with your blaming feminism for rape, saying that it discourages female responsibility. Feminism raises awareness about rape and calls attention to the abhorrent (yet rampant) ignorance and blaming of rape victims. I am so thoroughly disgusted with your comments on this article, I'm actually shaking with rage. What a sick, sick man you are.
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Lauren
August 4, 2010
Consent is a feminist ideal, you'd gather from some of these comments.
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Ivan
August 14, 2010
For the couple of women-less trolls who are causing such a stir, I hope you get drunk at a frat party and find yourselves in an upstairs bathroom speared unwillingly on the dick of a guy who gets off on raping 'macho' men like you. Then you will understand the violation and why it is wrong. Women have the same right you expect to bodily sovereignty. It is not our job to handle your deficits of self control anymore than it is your job to handle those of some gay rapist. I hope that Hannah shoots Bilal in the head and just ends this thing fairly. That is what really needs to happen, a few well-placed gunshots in the head of these cock-sure guys. That would make others think twice. I personally don't understand why women don't do this more often. Let's get 'er done Hannah!
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Deez Nuts
August 27, 2010
So everyone ASSumes that this woman's story is totally accurate...that her account is the end all be all.
Another example of pussy ass liberals hopping on the bandwagon of a cry baby brat.
I hate how so many people are so naive to just 100% believe this woman. No way that EVERY officer, EVERY doctor, and EVERY detective just dismissed this lady...not everyone...she was obviously full of it, and I'd much rather my tax dollars be spent handling legit cases...
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1in33
August 31, 2010
Deez Nuts, those officers circumvented their job descriptions. The doctors hands were tied. I'd much rather have my tax dollars go towards the rape kit her tax dollars earned her to rule decisively on her story than misogynist and typically uneducated and power-tripping cops decide sexual assault isn't worth their time.
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I hope Hannah will be okay in spite of all this.
Back in 2007 when I was working for a local organization that advocates for crime victims, some obscure blog mentioned this incident. I wanted to make my colleagues around the region aware of what this woman had endured from the MPD and the hospital, but I could not find any official news story in WaPo and other local papers. Did I miss it? I even emailed an editor at WaPo recommending that they report on the story. Nothing (at least that I saw).
One way to try to prevent this kind of thing from happening again is to draw attention to incidents when they happen, which can generate the kind of public outrage than can lead to change. When WaPo does report on sexual violence, the articles tend to take a victim-blaming attitude. How are we going to bring about justice for rape survivors if the news media doesn't give [properly fact-checked] attention to these issues in the community--if the public doesn't know that victims are treated terribly in some cases? Thanks, Amanda, for fulfilling your journalistic duty where WaPo has fallen short for a long time.
I'd like to add, I really respect and admire Hannah's friends for their support of her during all of this.
I admire her for absolutely doing the right thing by going to get checked in the hospital, going to police, ie."going through the procedure" that people are always telling victims they should do. Had she not people would have most certainly said she was making it all up, but look what happened when she did?
Her friends are a wonderful example of being allies, by not just leaving when Hannah disappeared from the party, but making sure they find her and continually looking after her well being.
Thanks for highlighting this story.
http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/local/D_C_-safe-haven-for-rapists-8723479-80746892.html
and
http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/local/D_C_-cops-uncover-multiple-rapists-8704810-80436947.html
All DC citizens need to understand how lax and tolerant our city is in regards to crime. It is shameful and probably the number one reason huge areas of this city may never flourish: there is simply no security. Vote.
Great news, everybody!! It's open season on Alzheimer's patients and the retarded!!!!!
If, through your own fault or someone else's, you are mentally incapacitated, will no one protect your rights? I guess that rules out sleeping, too.
If you suddenly cannot remember what's happened to you, is it unreasonable to consider it likely that you may have been drugged? If you have been drugged, how exactly are you supposed to remember exactly how and by whom you've been drugged? Isn't that THE POINT of drugging someone?
Wasn't this girl being responsible when she said, I don't know what happened, I *may have* been raped? Isn't that precisely the type of conscientious behavior about NOT making false accusations. If you don't jump to conclusions, we don't think we have enough evidence to bother to COLLECT evidence. If you do jump to conclusions, you're an irresponsible slut who doesn't deserve to have evidence collected. WOW. That's one hell of a catch-22.
Not a single person in a position to help her seemed to step back from their assumptions about her at any time throughout this story. Hannah's case was a problem they wanted to go away, not a potential crime victim in need of services and support.
Given the complete lack of help or support given to her thus far by the medical and legal systems, are you really asserting that the judiciary will suddenly open up like a flower for her? Did you actually read this story, or did you just skim the first page and decide if the DC cops didn't think she had a credible,you don't either? Cause, as we all know, DC cops have a untarnished record of reliability and honesty, right?
Somebody give me a knife, so I can spread my sarcasm an inch or two thicker.
1. People pay more attention to themselves, their surrounding, and their friends - over 70% of rapes go unreported. Only 1 in 12 result in any kind of consequence for the rapist.
2. SANE programs should be available at every hospital. A victim of rape must be able to receive emergency medical care just as does any other victim of physical crime. Funding should not be a limiting factor when somebody's dignity, health, and life are on the line.
1) DC Rape Crisis Center is to be commended for all their efforts to make progress for women in spite of obvious hostility from DC institutions.
2) People must just really, really hate and distrust women. There is honestly no other explanation for this.
3) This story makes me ashamed to be part of a society that would treat victims this way.
It took me about two months to decide whether or not to report. I knew that I did not want to do so unless I was prepared to see it through, should they find enough to prosecute. The detective who took my statement was antagonistic and accusatory, and made me feel like I was wasting her time. She then went on leave and another detective took over my case. Not that I was informed of that of course. I found out after many phone calls, wondering why I had not heard anything about the progress. When they finally returned my calls, they couldn't find my kit. Who loses a rape kit?! I called the SANE nurse directly, and tearfully pleaded to her that they couldn't find my case. She was furious, and called the detective personally to tell them where my kit was (which, it turns out, was exactly where it was supposed to be, had they bothered actually contacting her).
After they found it.....nothing. Lots of phone chasing, and on the rare occasions when I actually reached the detective, he was cold and kept telling me that they were working on it, and would get back to me. He said he finished the investigation and would be handing the materials over to the attorney's office. I kept nagging. A few weeks later, after no word, I called again. Again, he promised he was meeting the attorney that week. No word. I called again a few weeks later. Again, he said he was dropping my materials off that week. No word.
After several weeks, someone else got back to me to let me know that this detective was now on sick leave. Nobody knew what was going on with my case. They claimed my file was locked a drawer of his before he left. As if nobody could find a way to open it. I was told someone else would get back to me. Nobody did. I waited a few weeks and called again. I filed my original complaint in January. I was brought in for questioning at the beginning of March. Now it was mid-June. I called again, they said the detective was still out.
I kept calling. By mid-August, I'd had enough and asked to speak to the Lieutenant. This was ridiculous. When the Lieutenant called me back, and I explained that I was looking for information on my case, she said "Oh, well the detective is right next to me, did you want to talk to him?" He was back and did not bother to let me know where my case stood. He got on the line, and said "Oh, YOUR case? They declined to prosecute that." I was silent. And then I asked when that decision was made. He looked through his notes. They had closed the case in the middle of June. TWO MONTHS AGO. Nobody had called me. Not from the Sexual Assault Unit and not from the attorney's office. I broke down on the phone, he sounded irritated. I asked for the name of the attorney who had made that call. He said she was now on maternity leave. I pondered the irony of that fact that a woman had made this decision.
I feel for Hannah. It is quite apparent that to the DC police, a drunk girl is asking for it. If you are too drunk to say no, it is your own fault that you get taken advantage of. My female roommates, in fact, said this to me as well. In 2008, it boggles the mind that women can think this way.
Aside from the SANE nurse, not a single person I encountered was on the side of the victim. I felt like a nuisance, they clearly did not believe me, and nowhere in the entire episode was there any indication that the members of that unit cared about the outcome of my case. I would put every penny I have on the line to bet that they did not do a thorough investigation. Without the counseling I received from DCRCC, I truly don't know where, or if, I would be right now.
Hannah, I wish you the best and I hope you are able to get some sort of justice on behalf of what I fear are many girls, just like you, in the District.
But I think I just answered this for myself: "...certainly I've been blind-drunk myself, more than a few times, and you put the two together with a pair of a hot girl and a horny guy and there can be some real trouble."
First off, how fortunate for you that you have a penis and therefore are completely unconcerned with how drunk you get and who may take advantage of it. In fact, in the matter of handing out consequences, you hold all the cards. So what you are inferring here is, you simply cannot help yourself as a drunk male, if a hot girl happens to be nearby and you suddenly get an erection. Given that, I suspect that if you WERE a girl, your behavior would be no different and you would in fact be "running around getting shit-drunk at some party or bar where some complete stranger might come up, capture me drag me off to some dark corner and stick his dick up in me and nut off and run away." Congratulations on your ticket to 'fun without consequences'. Must be nice.
Back to the rest of your response: Should I feel sympathy for the policemen because they have to hear soooo many of these cases, where girls "need 4 hours of their time, and they've got 20 people like you (me) to one degree or another, every night, night after night year after year?" IT'S YOUR JOB. And by the way, we pay for your position. If you have outgrown it, find a new one. Perhaps one that taxpayers are not funding. We are not their 'problem'. We are the bare bones (so to speak) of their job and have the right to "be harassing the police to see if they are acting on your (my) case". If I took that attitude at my own place of work, I'd be fired.
At the end of the day, being drunk is NOT an excuse to invade someone else's rights. It doesn't fly as an excuse when you are wasted behind the wheel of a car and it certainly doesn't fly when you invade someone's person without their consent. And for the record, the definition of rape in most states in the union is: "unlawful sexual activity and usu. sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usu. of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, INTOXICATION."
The question here is not whether or not a girl is foolish to be trashed and thus vulnerable at a bar or party. It is indeed foolish. But it is not consent. I have the right to stand outside a seedy bar in a bikini at 3am, and nobody has the right to touch me. Dumb of me? Absolutely. Does not change the violating nature of the act of rape. Bottom line is, being in public does not give someone else the right to violate you, no matter how foolish I may be acting. An employee of the bar, whom I asked to direct me to the bathroom, used that situation for his personal gain, aware that I was incapable of putting up a fight. The fact that I was so out of it that I couldn't "even stumble out of a bathroom and find a bartender or a bouncer and tell him that a busboy there locked you into a bathroom and raped you" is EXACTLY what makes it rape. And thus a crime. And thus worthy of the complete attention of the people whose salary we are providing for the sake of facilitating justice on our behalf.
Your response was 'dismissed' not because of the value of its content but because of its ignorance.
If I can be of any assistance on how things worked in the District while I was there, I would be happy to help. There were some wonderful changes accomplished but some negative events as well.
Cindy Teller
757-672-1665
What gets me most about this story is that it doesn't seem the hospital tested her for date rape drugs when her friends brought her to the hospital saying they thought she had been drugged. If someone has been drugged and raped, the individual probably appears intoxicated and can't really remember what has happened. Both of those facts appear to have been used against Hannah in this case. That the hospital didn't (doesn't?) have a procedure in place to recognize and effectively respond to this scenario is absurd, and frightening.
I'm just so angry. I can't really think of anything to comment. Anything, that is, but a bunch of really nasty swear words.
I really wish I could trust police officers more. Perhaps I could trust police officers more if more of them were female. I live in New Zealand which has been labelled the 'least corrupt country' in the world (in a recent study), yet we have our fair share of corrupt police & police systems (eg. the Louise Nicholas case). There is no independent place to complain about police to - is someone has a complaint against an officer, they have to lay their complaint with another officer, who makes his own decision about whether to investigate more or not. There have been a number of situations where files against police officers have inexplicably 'gone missing' and evidence of their professional misconduct has simply 'been lost'.
I love how Hannah thinks she waited "... for God knows how long." Grow up Hannah. You're in a hospital. There are far more important things for the doctors and staff to be doing than attending do your little crisis. I'm glad the police saw through her B.S. She certainly sounds like she had a princess complex when dealing with the police.
One thing I would like to point out is that, even though it may seem appalling to some people, there is a rationalization for not conducting a SANE exam on a survivor who is still intoxicated or drugged. If the doctors/nurses feel that the survivor is not coherent enough to consent to the exam, then doing the exam could potentially be an even further violation of the survivor, and the hospital staff do not want to carry out an exam on a patient who cannot give consent for it. So, while the Howard U staff may not have communicated this in a compassionate way, they probably were trying to respect the survivor by not conducting an exam she couldn't consent to. And because hanging out in a hospital ER waiting to de-tox is not a very pleasant thing to do, I do understand why they sent her home and told her to come back later.
Hannah is so brave, and I hope she sees some justice. As well, her friends are to be commended for their support.
So who's is ready to get the oil that Hannah and all of the other turned-away rape survivors need?...
My heart goes out to the subject of the article. Terrible thing to happen to someone, and a negative mark on area hospitals and the police department.
Seriously, have you ever tried talking to a female? And I mean like, actually listening to what she is saying without interrupting her, calling her a whore or making references to the good ol' days?
It's kind of a bizarre concept, I know, respecting women, but I hear a lot of people are getting into it.
http://www.news.com.au/drink-spiking-all-in-your-head-study/story-0-1225735783315
I imagine that the emergency services roll their eyes when people that have been drinking beyond their ability and make a poor decision come through the door crying rape, the unfortunate thing is that when genuine victims, and "Hannah" might well be one of them, come through the door they can get tarred with the same brush. Whats more, if as is suggested by feminists every time a woman has sex while shes drunk its rape... there will never be enough "rape" kits or services to go round.
Now where is all the public outrage over what happened to this guy:
http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2009/12/10/2009-12-10_william_mccaffrey_.html
My advice to Hannah: Have a good cry and move the fuck on.
You arent doing your cause any favours with that attitude, I wonder if False Rape Society is happy about you representing them like that..
Note how the girls in the story cried spiking and drugs... they have been taught this through feminist rape propaganda and hysteria. Again from the article about the Australian study...
"Of 100 suspected drink-spiking cases reviewed in a West Australian study, none were found to involve being slipped a sedative or illicit drug.
What emerged instead was a concerning picture of excess alcohol and illegal drug use by people - usually young women - at the centre of these drink-spiking claims.
"The public's perception that it's a guy putting a sedative drug into a woman's drink, at a pub or a club, we just didn't find that at all," Dr Mark Little, a clinical toxicologist at the Royal Perth Hospital, said.
"As a community, we have a bigger problem with illicit drug use and alcohol binge drinking than we do with drink spiking.""
If feminism taught young women to use common sense and about personal responsibility instead of teaching them to avoiding personal resonsibility and to blame others for outcomes generated by their own decisions (see wage gap). We wouldnt see all these women jumping to the conclusion that they have been spiked when they have in reality administered their own intoxicants, but feminism doesnt want safe women, feminism and professional feminists like the author of this blog want victims, to use as political capital.
Yeah, she wasn't sure if she was raped or not, isn't that the whole point of a rape kit, to make sure? You don't even think it's worth it to bother finding out? Would you feel the same way if this was your mom, your sister, your girlfriend, a girl you actually know?
And for the record, I don't think anybody deserves to be raped, especially not based on the height of their shoes or the weight of their makeup (Is there a scale they keep in the doctor's office to determine whether one's makeup is too heavy to test now?).
Out of curiosity, is it possible to track commenters on these boards? Because, if, God forbid, "Bill Diamond" is an actual MD, I'd like to figure out where he practices and send a copy of his comments to his supervisor and each and every one of his patients.
As for the rest of the trolls who've been getting their rocks off by revictimizing this young woman, those pathetic wastes of space are just lucky I can't actually punch people through the internet.
Any chance of getting them banned or deleted?
http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2009/12/10/2009-12-10_william_mccaffrey_.html
SDI, do you comprehend the meaning of the word "rectum"? What kind of sex, exactly, are you aware of that causes "rectal pain", that doesn't fit the traditional definition of "somdomy"?
And at no time in this three-page story did Hannah express a desire to see any man hung; she sought proper medical care and a thorough investigation and was denied both. She is now seeking a change in the way the city investigates rape claims so that a future woman or man in her position will receive the care and consideration she did not.
Finally, you may despise & judge women who don't dress as you think they ought, you may disdain & discount women who don't comport themselves in a manner you consider "ladylike", but wearing stiletto heels *is not* against the law. Drinking liquor over the age of 21 *is not* illegal. Being in a house occupied by men you do not know well *is not* illegal. What *is* illegal is dragging an incapacitated woman upstairs and assaulting her.
The fact is we live in an uncertain world. Women do get over rape. They are not traumatized for life. Life goes on. Molestation of young boys or girls is a hideous crime, as is molestation of the elderly or anyone in a position of weakness. But a young woman who actively pursues venues of maximum titillation is asking too much of me. Nothing she did was illegal, but was it good behavior? I'm sick and tired of nailing men to the wall for this shit. It's high time women starting taking responsibility. She doesn't know who attacked her, she doesn't have a name, she was so drunk she knows nothing. Throwing a guy behind bars for something that may or may not have happened is evil. Pure evil.
Something happened to me at a large party almost a year ago... I was and still am completely unsure of what exactly happened as I have no memory of about six hours or so, but some sort of sexual something occurred. I had been drinking; if the drinking caused the huge memory loss then I still think that consent was seriously doubtful. It was a pool party in Texas heat and what usually would have been a normal amount of alcohol could have hit my much stronger due to dehydration and just heat in general. If I was so drunk that I don't remember any of it- hours of it- then- I have a hard time imagining that I looked like someone who could reasonably and coherently consent to sex. I still struggle with calling this experience rape. Maybe it was another drug person and there was no consent for either party. Maybe who was with me had no idea that I was so impaired. I don't know what happened. I don't. But after coming to... after trying to piece together what had happened. After talking to as many people as I could, going over it again and again... I decided that whatever it was, it wasn't right.
I went to the local sheriff in the small town of Texas where I was, and was told that since I couldn't even state for sure that rape had occurred, because I couldn't give any details do to memory lost, because date rape drugs disappear from the system quickly, that I shouldn't go in for a rape test and if I did, they would not, would NOT look into the test or anything else. I was also told that I shouldn't have been at the party in the first place.
I was confused before reporting. And I talked myself into reporting it because I felt that what had happened was wrong, and I had a personal AND social obligation to report that something had happened. Instead of getting my voice out there, having someone at least acknowledge my confusion, acknowledge that something had happened, I got assaulted. The sheriff took no notes. He took no information. He wagged his finger at me and shamed me. I have had an easier time adjusting and dealing with the situations of the memory loss/sexual assault than I have had dealing with the treatment I received when trying to ethically and socially respond to the whatever happened that day. I'm angry. I'm belittled. I'm objectified. I'm blamed.
And now I'm guilty. Guilty that I didn't confront the sheriff's office and the horrifying situation. And guilty because I'm sure it's happened again. That some other woman has felt assaulted by the "justice" system. I didn't expect results. I didn't expect an answer. But I did expect someone to listen. And I didn't expect to be assaulted again.
The pure evil you speak of is absolutely nothing in comparison to the idea of injustice expressed above by those who so rightly say that, whether someone raped her or not, Hannah should have been treated fairly by the police department. And the pure evil that you speak of so rarely happens because, get this, when women are raped they rarely seek justice for fear of the kind of moral reprimand you bandy about so freely and even if they do, less than 10% actually result in any kind of conviction. Lastly, it sounds to me like you are saying that women who dress 'provocatively' and drink in public actually give up their human right to bodily autonomy. Oh dear, how misguided.
Lastly, please stop referring to the women of yesteryear as women with superior morals or values, they were, just as we are, guided into wearing their matronly attire by societal expectations. A reflection of their need to conform more than any kind of indicator of moral fiber.
Let's focus on the article and the shit that's going on.
You are discrediting victims of false rape charges in the same way that feminists discredit genuine rape victims, in other words you are part of the problem, whats more you are feeding their rape culture strawman. You should stop posting here, or find auseful way to advocate. Im suprised False Rape Society hasnt been on here to disown you yet.
The police did nothing because they didn't have to, because women still aren't human. Rape isn't a crime, because men are taught from the moment they're born that our bodies belong to them. Otherwise, a drugged human being with an aching rectum and no memory of anything would seem to indicate oh, I don't know, that maybe that human being was drugged and violently, forcibly violated.
And, oh, I know. It's totally misandry to expect men to not stick their penises into OTHER PEOPLE'S BODIES without explicit consent. Totally misandry for women to want to be treated as humans even though, god forbid, we were born with ovaries. For reals. The only reason men deny the truth of shit like this is so they may continue to commit rape as often as they please.
If the effect you wanted was for a total stranger to find your general comments very specific , very directed, very offensive ; and the most important here ::: To realize that prevaling attitudes like YOURS are the problem....YOU SUCCEEDED YAY! Now that you have your ego boost , I hope your attitude is changed by one of two things : 1.someone who loves you , who shows you that Women are not objects, but human just as yourself.OR..2. Someone that decides you need a lesson....and objectifies you in a manner fitting to your limited view... Maybe someone already did (which would explain alot) ...In which case I understand your anger , and please get help, for you no one else... In the meantime perhaps you should explore your internal processes and figure out what it is about you that needs to throw venom??? You're throwing away your strength.. You're woefully miseducated.. I hope you find clarity and balance... For everyone else in this pond as well as yourself............
From someone who cried and got over it .
Thank you for sharing your stories. I can't imagine the strength that took.
Tell her your outraged and she needs to get her (mostly male) staff to do a much better job of handling violent crimes like rape. Let her know this is some REALLY bad press, so if she's not interested in putting them through some sort of rape training class then this kind of publicity will continue.
http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9C04E6DC123CF937A15751C0A9669D8B63&scp=1&sq=william+mccaffrey&st=nyt
Previously, it appears that the authorities prosecuted this guy even though DNA tests did not support her allegations:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/12/nyregion/12dna.html?_r=1&scp=4&sq=william+mccaffrey&st=nyt
The New York case is exactly like the case described here in this sense: The authorities failed to conduct a proper investigation, and as a consequence somebody got hurt. The City Paper story likely wouldn't even have been written if the authorities had taken a report, interviewed witnesses and processed blood tests and a rape kit. Then they might reasonably have concluded that there was no basis for prosecution. But that's not what happened. Nobody wants to railroad anybody. What we want from police and doctors is that they take a complaint seriously and look at the evidence.
The hosts of this party are guilty of irresponsibly dealing with an intoxicated guest (or worse) and as such place themselves at risk for all sorts of accusations, even false ones.
Arguably, anytime an individual imbibes they increase their own risk of injury as well. But, I'd bet there are more instances of male predatory behavior than vindictive female accusation.
As an RN in a trauma center I can say that anytime someone appears intoxicated and is vomiting is at risk for compromising their airway and they are classified as Urgent or Emergent depending on their level of consciousness. Remembering recent events is key to assessing level of consciousness. The fact that this woman couldn't remember what happened is a red flag.
Let's see, we have an array of testimony from her friends that set up really shady circumstances, plus Hannah's severe vomiting and physical pain, but apparently it's crazy to think she was assaulted.
But assuming the guy was too drunk to know what he was doing, that's a-ok. Got it!
Not to mention she couldn't consent if she was so intoxicated/drugged that she couldn't remember a damn thing.
Meanwhile, the whole point of this article is that a rape kit would have shed some light on the events of the night, but it was wrongly refused to her .
it is important to know that this is not an isolated incidence. this happens all around the country, to men and women of all ages and backgrounds. we must all take individual action to SPEAK OUT against sexual assault and against people such as 'she deserved it'. it is only through education and ACTION that we can truly prevent this from happening to one less person (and not through individuals protecting themselves from the masses, but from communities collectively protecting individuals).
talk to a friend, a relative, a local representative, anyone! sexual assault is unacceptable, let it be known!
Seeing as i have no way of contacting you, I'm writing you here. You are an extremely strong individual. I don't care what anyone says, and you shouldn't listen to them. Our entire culture is based around blaming the victim, and I'm sorry. No one should ever belittle or intimidate you for attempting to report a crime, especially one so very personal. You have wonderful friends to care about and for you that much, you guys did everything right. This situation is fucked up beyond belief, but I want to thank you. Thank you for pursuing this, and fighting this system that handled you so brutally. Thank you for all of the women that needed help and didnt get it, and for bringing awareness to people that this stuff really happens, that their sisters, mothers, and girlfriends could be treated like this. Thank you for standing for countless women who have been unable to. Thank you for being so very strong. Thank you.
I wish you the best of luck, and hope that everyone is brought to justice with a stronger understanding of how terribly this situation was handled. Don't let them intimidate you, call you names, belittle you, or blame you! It's not your fault, its never the survivors fault. Don't forget who you are. I hope you can find it in yourself to forgive and continue on.
And I sincerely hope that you ignore all of the misled, misogynous, hateful, and ignorant comments above mine. You have thicker skin than that. Please don't let them get you down. Thousands of women have fought your fight, you have backup, you are not alone. It will take time, but water drips through stone.
Stay strong, sister!
Love and Solidarity,
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Firstly; I am currently in a situation dealing with a 20 year old male who raped (in the space of one and a half years) four girls under the age of 15 and possible three others and sexually abused a young boy. I am in Holland and I am currently trying to convince one of the girls to go to the police, if you have any advice it would be helpful.
Secondly, What happened to the victim of this report is tragic and the police are clearly at fault, if the woman was making it up surely it would be easier to give her a rape kit and when it came up clean then she could be presented with the evidence (not that I'm saying thats the case) I just do not see why they could not provide a rape kit...if she's lying the police would have the truth and if she wasn't they would have the evidence. I see this as gross neglect of duty and human rights, she was not sure if it had happened and giving her the Rape kit would have atleast managed to verify her claims and put her mind at rest.
Thirdly, to all the people out there who think that "she deserved it" or a variation on that theme, how would you feel if that happened to you? be you a female or a male? would you like someone doing such a think to you?
On another point, many people are saying that if you get drunk and dress like a slut you deserve it....firstly, yes, I have to agree...women have a tendency to dress slightly more provocatively then I myself would, on the other-hand that is completely up to them and just because they are showing a bit too much skin does not give anyone a right to touch them in anyway without consent. Guys, if you want to be so sanctimonious about women getting drunk and then calling rape because they didn't like the sex or felt guilty or wanted the morning after pill (and yes, I have come across these situations as well)then it is surely up to you as the stronger and more dominant sex (apparently) to not take advantage of us feeble females....or something to that tune....basically, you should be able to keep your dick in your pants when it becomes apparent that the girl is completely off her rocker.
Guys, Imagine getting drunk and waking up the next morning without a memory of the night before and a pain in your ars....I'm pretty certain you wouldn't just say "I guess I deserved it" and roll over and go back to sleep.
I am very shocked and disgraced with human life if this is the reaction that most people have to another persons suffering.
(Please excuse me for my bad grammer, I am only 17)
NO woman deserves the trauma of rape. No woman ever asks for it. People like you focus on woman getting drunk and getting raped, when in fact he should be focusing on the fact that men are getting drunk and doing the raping. Women don't rape themselves, you Neanderthal.
I take particular issue with your blaming feminism for rape, saying that it discourages female responsibility. Feminism raises awareness about rape and calls attention to the abhorrent (yet rampant) ignorance and blaming of rape victims. I am so thoroughly disgusted with your comments on this article, I'm actually shaking with rage. What a sick, sick man you are.
Another example of pussy ass liberals hopping on the bandwagon of a cry baby brat.
I hate how so many people are so naive to just 100% believe this woman. No way that EVERY officer, EVERY doctor, and EVERY detective just dismissed this lady...not everyone...she was obviously full of it, and I'd much rather my tax dollars be spent handling legit cases...
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